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User Topic: Like him more, love him less?
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Default  Posted: 9:16 PM, June 27th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

There's pragmatism now where there used to be warm fuzzy pink love.

Thanks Jrazz; just about perfectly describes my POV. We now have sensible love and I could make it on my own if it came to that.

Sometimes I feel a sense of loss; some of the romance is gone.

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Default  Posted: 9:00 AM, June 28th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I love her differently, but probably even more, if love means making changes o stay with her. I like her less. I guess I see her A as an attack on our connection/friendship more than on our love for each other.

Interesting question. I think we're just scratching the surface on this....

fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

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