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SWAT70
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This thread is killing me. I'm at Gander mountain with my boys. Upon seeing the Hoo-ha I have two reactions. Hot damn would you look at that and let me at it. Sorry.


Me BH-45. WW-39
DD-11 DS-6 DS-3
D day was Valentines day 2014. Talk about a trigger.
Divorced


Posts: 341 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Down range
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 4:06 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Before I started nursing I had A cup breasts that WH always said were perfect. Now that I'm a C cup he just oggles them all the time. Was he lying when he said I was perfect before?

I just like boobs, to be honest. Big ones, small ones red ones, blue ones... Hooray for boobs!

But no, he probably wasn't lying. There is something nice about all sizes.


Posts: 1811 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
Razor
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Default  Posted: 4:08 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I agree with hopeless. Boobs are good. And bigger is not better.

In time gravity goes to work on those big ones. So in the long run smaller is better.

ETA. I prefer an athletic build in women. Fit is good.

[This message edited by Razor at 4:09 PM, June 24th (Tuesday)]


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


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Maxiom
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Before I started nursing I had A cup breasts that WH always said were perfect. Now that I'm a C cup he just oggles them all the time. Was he lying when he said I was perfect before?

Yeah.. i am just a fan of boobs. My first GF had very small breasts (like AA), and I was happy.. My wife had DD.. and I am just as happy.

Why? Because boobs.


Me: FBS/WS 41
Her FWS/BS 41
My DDay - March 10, 2007 Whole Truth - May 2007
Her DDay - March 2, 2011
True NC March 3, 2011

Posts: 462 | Registered: Oct 2009 | From: Canada
SWAT70
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Default  Posted: 4:14 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Katie. Not lying at all. I'm with the other guys boobs are good no matter the size. Wife was a C after three kids a D. But the most important thing thing to me is they are hers and I love everything about her body.


Me BH-45. WW-39
DD-11 DS-6 DS-3
D day was Valentines day 2014. Talk about a trigger.
Divorced


Posts: 341 | Registered: Mar 2014 | From: Down range
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you for asking that question, Katie. And thank you to the menz for answering.

I've often wondered the same thing. My size has changed so dramatically over the years because of pregnancy, nursing and now weightloss. H says he prefers them smaller because they look better but when I was nursing and huge he used to stare at them all the time!


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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Razor
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Default  Posted: 4:15 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Another memory from University.

Art class this time. We were discussing the aesthetic of womens bodies. And yes. this was actually discussed in a class setting..

While personal preferences exist. there remains common themes. Our preferences in the opposite sex usually falls back on reproduction.

Generally speaking. Men prefer younger looking women because the chances of reproducing successfully and getting a healthy child are greater. Nice hair. Good teeth. Clear skin. All these are signs of health. If you think about it. all the beauty aids / enhancements are about youth or getting a healthy look.

Womens preferences are more complicated. and since that isnt the topic here Ill skip it.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 4:18 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Before I started nursing I had A cup breasts that WH always said were perfect. Now that I'm a C cup he just oggles them all the time. Was he lying when he said I was perfect before?

Can't speak for your H, but my wife went from a B to a full D after 3 kids. Either way they were perfect because they are hers.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

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rachelc
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Default  Posted: 4:25 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. is a power washer a good investment?

2. who should I draft as receiver in my fantasy football league 2014?


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why? Because boobs.


I may have to add this to the quote thread.


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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Razor
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. is a power washer a good investment?

IMO. generally speaking NO. But it depends on where you live and how much driveway/deck you have. They are no good for washing your car. BUT are ok for washing your kids.. if you have Sons.

2. who should I draft as receiver in my fantasy football league 2014?

I have no idea. Believe it or not allot of men do NOT have interest in fantasy football. Just like there are likely allot of women not interested in high fashion shows on the tele.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:37 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Y'all are killin me!


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

Posts: 7140 | Registered: Jan 2010 | From: Coastal South
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 4:42 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. is a power washer a good investment?
IMO yes. I own one and use it a few times a year. Back deck, house, car... Useful in a variety of situations. Make sure you will get use out of it though.


2. who should I draft as receiver in my fantasy football league 2014?
Good question. Difficult to say though. Tom Brady is poised to have a better year with his receivers now going into their second year with him. High expectations. I hate him though so don't go by me.

Eta- typo

[This message edited by yearsofpain25 at 4:43 PM, June 24th (Tuesday)]


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

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simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, this thread is hilarious, and just the laugh I needed today.


Upon seeing the Hoo-ha I have two reactions. Hot damn would you look at that and let me at it.

^^^This cracked me up


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

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Rebreather
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Default  Posted: 4:43 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

2. who should I draft as receiver in my fantasy football league 2014?

That probably has to do with your draft position. Maybe we should start a convo down in fun and games to be prepared!


Me BS
Him WH
2 ddays in '07
Recovering.
"The cure for the pain, is the pain." -Rumi

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Schadenfreude
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Default  Posted: 4:46 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I use my power washer far more than I ever thought I would. I wash the siding at home and at the cottage, wash the patio at the cottage after a winter's disuse, wash my driveway to keep it silvery grey, and use it at low power to wash the dead bugs off the front of my car.
(TMI???) My wife, a woman, even asks me when I'm going to use it for the siding, patio and driveway. You know how a wife with a "man's task" on her mind can ask: over and over and over. That's been the only downside of it. She doesn't care if I think its too cold to do the job. She's not the one getting sprayed with a fine mist of cold water.

Never played Fantasy Football, although my son does with his buddies, so I can't help you there. Nice to know a woman is interested, however.


Who is going to be wearing what designer and in what color, Rachele, on the next Red Carpet show on TV? And whose shoes and jewelry? Inquiring minds want to know. So that's what's really important, isn't it? No straight man could ever answer any questions about Red Carpet shows.


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 4:48 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

1. is a power washer a good investment?
only if you run all the gas out after every use. Don't let the gas sit. It will ruin the carburetor.


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 4:53 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..@rachelc...

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


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BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In the interest of equality, shouldn't we have an ask the womenz thread too?


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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painpaingoaway
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, June 24th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Absolutely BBT, why don't you start one?


me BS female 56/him WS 59
Married 33 years
D-day July 09/he gave me his slut's STD
Watch my movie: "My wayward husband's adventures in STD land":
Episode 1: youtu.be/9Jv0-d_CdYc
Episode 2: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=8Tz822H82Gk

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