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User Topic: Ask the menz...
Razor
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Default  Posted: 5:13 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My question is kind of frivolous. But here goes. What do you think is your best physical feature and why?

I dont think I have one. Im fit for my age but pretty unremarkable looking. Im not ugly but generally dont get second looks from women.

I think my best feature isnt physical. Im curious about pretty much everything and so know a little about most everything. I love talking about pretty much everything and enjoy hearing opinions of everyone.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 5:14 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What do you think is your best physical feature and why?

My thighs. up to this point, I've been able to eat all the cheesecake I want and none of it has gone to them.

Seriously, though, I don't know how to answer this. I guess it would be my height (6'8") but I also feel like that makes me a freak of nature. Great physical characteristics aren't my strong suit. Hopefully I have a good enough personality to carry me.


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Schadenfreude
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My back, since most women were and are most appreciative when I'm leaving the room and they're staying.

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SoSorry17
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Default  Posted: 5:17 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So no woman has ever said you have nice eyes or smile? They never said they liked your hair. Or your butt was cute?


BH-SWAT70 Me-39
Three kids 11,6 and 3
Divorced

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 5:18 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My Mom thinks I'm handsome...

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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 5:19 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So no woman has ever said you have nice eyes or smile? They never said they liked your hair. Or your butt was cute?

My BS said these to me, so I married her. LOL


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


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HeartFullOfHoles
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Default  Posted: 5:22 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't ever remember thinking about another man in any way other than as a friend or as an ass I wanted to avoid.

How do I show him respect and love WITHOUT being naked or manipulating with sex?
Love and respect are much more than being naked or sex. Sex is often a great expression of love, but there are other things that need to be in place first otherwise it's just sex. I'm guessing love is often the same things for us as it is for you. Someone who genuinely cares for me by showing interest in me as a person, developing connection, being supportive, being compassionate with my struggles, showing empathy for my pain, etc.

Respect is probably more important to me (and other men) than love and that's often a hard one to quantify. It is probably easier to list things that are disrespectful (criticizing, minimizing my feelings, etc.).

What do you think is your best physical feature and why?
I keep myself in good shape. I don't think about or quantify it below that level. Maybe that's one of the differences between men and woman.


BH - Divorcing
D-Day 4/28-29/2012
Two daughters in HS

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HeartFullOfHoles
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So no woman has ever said you have nice eyes or smile?
Yes they have said both of these and other things to me, but I have had my eyes and smile my whole life so I don't notice them as special.


BH - Divorcing
D-Day 4/28-29/2012
Two daughters in HS

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holesinmybucket
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Default  Posted: 5:33 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Okay, gotta a question for the menz

Why do men seem to break women up into "parts"?

ex..
1. I am a ass man
2. I am a thigh or leg man
3. I am a boob man

I know, womenz will look at a manz attributes, but for me it takes a exceptional looking man to get my attention and even then, it is typically the "whole" package. Why does one part of the body of a women stand over and above other parts?

This is a great thread thanks for starting it an Thanks to the menz for the great answers!


me:BW 37
him:WH 37 (Dr. Jekyll)
DDay: 1/1/14
Whole truth:March 7th 14

DS 14 DS 10 DD 8
They are the sun that shine through any storm.

Love is not given away, but shared
When you have lost what matters.. what do you have left to loose?


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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 5:34 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that's just the part that catches your attention the most. For example, I'm definitely a "face man". It's the first thing I notice. I still have a very healthy appreciation for the other parts as well.

[This message edited by h0peless at 5:36 PM, June 26th (Thursday)]


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SoSorry17
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Default  Posted: 5:47 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I guess your right, we generally think different. BH doesn't think there is anything special about him either. He always says he is average looking. Not true, his best features are his eyes and smile.


BH-SWAT70 Me-39
Three kids 11,6 and 3
Divorced

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ButterflyGirl
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Default  Posted: 5:50 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Turnabout is fair play, right?

A question for the menz adapted from the womenz thread: When you see us naked for the first time what are you thinking? Comparing to other women? What?


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Two DS~ 7-Eleven
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HeartFullOfHoles
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I tend to look at/enjoy the whole package, but I certainly notice what is being accented. Short shorts = oh look at those great legs, a boob shirt = well duh, a cocktail dress open to the small of the back = look at that great back, a beautiful smile = what a nice person, etc.


BH - Divorcing
D-Day 4/28-29/2012
Two daughters in HS

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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 5:55 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BG I think that most menz stop thinking at that point besides how lucky we are. Or about to be. At least this is true for me.


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


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painfulpast
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Default  Posted: 5:56 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Like screaming "I WANT YOU TO FUCK MY EAR RIGHT NOW" in the middle of grammas wake or something. That's kinda fucked.

Thanks

Mental note - no ear sex at gramma's wake



The stones from my enemies, these wounds will mend
but I cannot survive the roses from my friends

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h0peless
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Default  Posted: 5:58 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you see us naked for the first time what are you thinking? Comparing to other women? What?

I'm generally not thinking about much more than how lucky I am. Most of the blood that should be feeding my brain is tied up in other pieces of my anatomy at that point.


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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why do men seem to break women up into "parts"?
ex..
1. I am a ass man
2. I am a thigh or leg man
3. I am a boob man
That's not what we fall for though. For some guys it's what catches their attention.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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HeartFullOfHoles
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Default  Posted: 6:06 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you see us naked for the first time what are you thinking?
Certainly no comparison, mostly just enjoying the view and looking forward to exploring all those gorgeous curves in thorough detail and maybe oh look at the cute mole.


BH - Divorcing
D-Day 4/28-29/2012
Two daughters in HS

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Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 6:07 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you see us naked for the first time what are you thinking? Comparing to other women? What?
No comparing to other women happening in my mind. Just enjoying the view appreciating the fact that she is allowing me to see her naked. It's also the realization that the more comfortable she is with that the more she must like me or be attracted to me.


xBH
D final 8/2012

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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, June 26th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

And did I mention "Look Lady Bits!!!!!"


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

ME: WH HER: BS (holesinmybucket)

I do not PM with Women


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