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User Topic: Abbondad and Allatsea - together
SBB
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Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit.

Billabong - go Australia!!

Great pics guys. Is the beer so warm they use coffee cups these days??

Regarding X - time for my favourite NIKism: "They know exactly which buttons to press because they installed the fuckers!!".

63 is a lot closer to 57 than 87 so I call that a win. My L told me in D a fair outcome is where everyone ends up a little pissed off. She is more pissed off than you - I call that a win for the good guys.

Now it is time to focus on her preventing access to your children. YOU go at her all guns blazing on this. This is the important stuff.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5549 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
beingmiranda
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Default  Posted: 7:33 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Super cool! Love this!!


Me: now 38
Him: up and left for OW
OW: old maid mid thirties with biological clock ticking, desparate for a man.
Divorced the cheater - 8/2011
Married the most AMAZING man - 10/2013

Posts: 792 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: NJ
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I waaaaanah go to London!

[This message edited by FaithFool at 7:42 PM, June 29th (Sunday)]


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17381 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 9:33 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So awesome to see you both!!!


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3231 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 9:41 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So cool!! Hope you guys are having a great time!


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008
Chrysalis123
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Default  Posted: 10:08 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great to see you both!!!! How cool to meet up in London.


Donít get to the end of your life and find that you lived only the length of it; live the width of it as well.†

Posts: 2670 | Registered: Jan 2010
TheGivingTree
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Allatsea, do you get to keep the marital home, or was that already decided, and I just missed it? BTW, you both look great - look out London!


Me: FBW, 48. Him: SAFWH, 57 (SFGary)
3 fantastic kids: DS 16, DS 15, DD 10
DDay 1: 1/8/13, multiple DDays with TT for an entire year.

Working hard at R.
If all you wanted was love, why would you use me up, cut me down, build a boat and sail aw


Posts: 41 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: San Francisco
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 10:15 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Really nice pics, gents!

Posts: 6996 | Registered: Dec 2010
lieshurt
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Default  Posted: 10:17 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love the pic. It's wonderful to see you two.


I'm sorry if you don't like my Honesty, but to be fair I don't like your lies.

Sometimes it's better to push someone away...not because you stopped loving them but because you can't take the pain anymore.


Posts: 13746 | Registered: Mar 2007 | From: Houston
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 10:18 PM, June 29th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Note to self: next time in London meet AAS!

AD needs to come to the Florida g2g. Maybe AAS can plan a visit then.

Have fun you too. You both deserve it.

Oh and thanks for the pics.

K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5062 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 12:40 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit

I didn't see a fanny pack ...just sayin


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 1:26 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Abbondad - I don't think I've ever replied on your threads but I've read them. I remember you posted a picture on one of the picture threads in F&G last year some time. If that was a picture from that time I just have to say that the comparison is night and day. You look so much healthier. I remember seeing that picture and I could physically see the pain of the crap going on in your life. You look happier and like you are healing.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 2, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011

Posts: 1719 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: New Jersey
Abbondad
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Default  Posted: 4:31 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you, TCD. So sweet of you to say. This trip is one in a series of "Walkabouts" for me. (SBB, I assume you know what I'm referring to?) I am determined to be proactive in my healing and in my writing my own Chapter II of my life. A journey alone (albeit also with an aim to meet and support my friend) is part of my self-prescription.

And English food is terrific.


Divorced April Fool's Day 2014

Fear is the mind-killer.
Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.
I will face my fear.
I will permit it to pass over me and through me.
-Dune


Posts: 1613 | Registered: Dec 2012
SBB
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Default  Posted: 5:24 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@ Walkabout - I do know what those are.

You do look 10 years younger from that first pic you posted. So much happier. Funny how you don't notice grief until you see it gone. I know you're still grieving but you're not in abject grief anymore. I look back on pics of me during that terrible time and I'm like a shadow. These days I look... alive. All good stuff.

Chapter I is closed - bring on Chapter II!!


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5549 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
UKgirl
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Default  Posted: 8:32 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great pics of cool guys.
Did Abbondad pop over to the Mulberry shop for a more acceptable fanny pack? (Couldn't help noticing.......)
I think AAS will be doing a few little walkabouts hisself pretty soon.


D-Day: 30 July 2006 LTA: 5yrs
Me, BS, 57 y/o Him, WS, 58 y/o
MOW, pathetic ex-fiancee.
3 grown boys and one 19 y/o
I don't consider myself married anymore.
There are some words once spoken split the world in two. Before you say them and after.

Posts: 3451 | Registered: Nov 2007 | From: UK
tushnurse
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is awesome that you boys got to get together. Enjoy your time.
AAS, I am so happy that things turned out the way they did.

AD - You actually do appear to be a "different guy" That is fantastic, because you have started to heal yourself, into a great man. Enjoy your Walkabout. It is great for healing the soul.

(((and strength)))

Have a pint for me!!!


Me: FBS
Him: FWS
Kids: 15 & 17
Married for 22 years now, was 16 at the time. .
D-Day Sept 26 2008
Fully R'd, and Happy Happy Happy

Posts: 8430 | Registered: Oct 2008 | From: St. Louis
allatsea
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Default  Posted: 2:55 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Givingtree,

Yes, I got to keep the house and all the contents. I also keep all of the household contents and the third vehicle. I keep my pension too.

I suppose when I put it like that it sounds pretty good!


Me 40
WW 38
Together 19 years
Married for 9
DS(1) 9
DS(2) 7
Dday 10th Feb 2013
She moved in with POS and took kids 23rd Mar 2013. WW now has new baby
Divorced April 2014

Posts: 681 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: UK
Sadmumma
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Default  Posted: 11:21 AM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Glad you labeled the pic, in case the respective clothing doesn't give you away as an American and a Brit.


Billabong - go Australia!!


Thats what I thought..

Great to see you guys


On any given day you have the power to say "my story is not going to end like this"
Me 41 BS
Him 41 WH
6 kids...7 weeks, 5,7,9,11&13
D day jan 29th 2014

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