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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 21
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 12:18 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're welcome Baltimore, hope you found some of the info useful.


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
HeartFullOfHoles
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Default  Posted: 1:20 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Baltimore, I believe you can reply to a PM, but you cannot initiate one until you have enough posts.


BH - Divorcing
D-Day 4/28-29/2012
Two daughters in HS

Posts: 139 | Registered: Mar 2014
GotPlayed
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Member # 41294
Default  Posted: 1:28 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hurt by something but I think STBXWW may be lurking here. I will post about it in a week or so.


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 718 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
mhca
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Default  Posted: 1:32 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GotPlayed: Sucks to hear, PM if you need anything.


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961


Posts: 573 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In your inbox, mhca.

Thank you


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 718 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
5454real
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Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PM's open brother.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 6:20 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yep. It goes without saying, but a PM is always welcome from a Menz member.


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
Tred
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Member # 34086
Default  Posted: 7:31 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PM's always welcome here too.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3914 | Registered: Dec 2011
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

GotPlayed - Please feel free to contact me, or any of the Mods/SI Staff via PM at any time if you have any concerns as well.

I'm available via PM if you just want to talk, too.


Posts: 7004 | Registered: Dec 2010
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 8:30 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard if you send this PM to 13 friends within 48 hours, you'll wake up naked in the Adirondacks painted blue with a giant fucking sword clutched in your fist, surrounded by the bloody remains of your ten most hated enemies, or lacking enough enemies, anthropomorphic personifications of your most hated pop culture icons. It's true. Disco didn't just die, it was killed and left for dead in the mountains.

That's what I hear on the road, anyway.


“Fate is a fickle bitch who dotes on irony.”

Posts: 7444 | Registered: May 2010 | From: USA
DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 9:20 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wait, where am I?
Why am I naked, and is that a sword sticking out of Robin Thicke's earhole?
And why is he wearing a red shirt?


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 534 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
MadeOfScars
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Default  Posted: 10:46 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WTF did I walk into?? I mean, I understand why Robin Thicke's dismembered body lays atop a pile of any and all Kardashians, that bully from junior high and my ex. That makes perfect sense, and we call all alibi eachother. Uh, I mean, nothing to see here...*wipes fingerprints off sword*

Oh, there are my clothes (phew). These mountains aren't so cold after all. Oh yeah, the most important part - we got you GotPlayed. PM any time.


“The wound is the place where the Light enters you.” ― Rumi

Posts: 1057 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Texas
WearingTheHorns
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Default  Posted: 11:03 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Started the new job yesterday so haven't been able to check in here. Seems like it's going go go well. I'd be glad for this to be my last job. Not near retirement yet, but nevertheless.

Sunday was a good day. After the way I felt Saturday when we were at church I felt for a moment the pastor was talking to me when he mentioned having a scarred tongue from biting it so much. Later WW and I were running some errands and I thanked her for being willing to leave the show Friday night. She said she didn't notice my discomfort so much as knowing it had to be hard for me with the way the A in the play was presented. I told her about the dream too. Almost didn't but I really wanted her to understand how much this shit affects me. She started crying and said how much she hated what she did. She knew that if I did walk away like in the dream it'd be what she deserves but it'd be the worst thing that ever happened to her. I got her cheered back up but didn't say I'd never leave. I don't know if she caught that or not, but I just can't bring myself to say I'll never do that as a result of this.

Anyway, welcome mcha, Baltimore, and any other noobs I may have missed.

Interesting. I seem to have found a sort of elephant graveyard except it's full of people. Hey look, there's Justin Beiber. No sign of blood or wounds, just an empty bottle of Midol. Huh. Must've been an overdose.

[This message edited by WearingTheHorns at 11:05 PM, July 29th (Tuesday)]


Dday: over a period of three days 11/14-16/2012.
EA/PA: ~ 2 1/2 years
EA/beginning PA: ~ 10 months

"What God has joined together, let man... no man put asunder" -Pastor at our wedding concluding the ceremony
2 Cor 12:9-10


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DefiledRage
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Default  Posted: 1:32 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Shit, just happened again....

Is that tom cruise over there? Looks like he was jumping up and down on a couch and fell off and broke his neck. (I didnt push him I promise)

And it looks like underneath him are the casting directors for Edge of tomorrow, Oblivion, War of the worlds, and The last samurai.

Let this serve as a warning to the casting department for any future movies with kickass concepts that I might like. Dont turn it into a dripping pile of tom cruise worshipping tom cruise for the typical 2 to 3 hours. STOP RUINING GOOD MOVIES.

I aint saying, i'm just saying

That wasnt off topic was it? Needed to be said though.

[This message edited by DefiledRage at 1:34 AM, July 30th (Wednesday)]


M:14yrs
Dday 1 EA 7/8/2010
Dday 2 PA 3/1/2013 same OMM for 4yrs

Mister rabbit says, "A moment of realization is worth a thousand prayers."


Posts: 534 | Registered: May 2013 | From: Two blocks from south shit and west hell
GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 2:42 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ever heard the song "Tom Cruise Crazy" by Jonathan Coulton?

A jewel. Find it on the 'nets.

The chorus:

Tom Cruise is Tom Cruise Crazy
Just be glad it's him, not you
If you had Tom Cruise's troubles
You might be Tom Cruise Crazy too
You'd flash your big, white shiny smile
You'd buy expensive shoes...
But you'd be the only man on earth
Who couldn't enjoy Tom Cruise, no, no
You couldn't enjoy Tom Cruise.

Thank you for the sentiment everyone. I won't get the sword and blood prize but I did send a couple PMs. Which means I'm PMs-ing. No, wait...

[This message edited by GotPlayed at 2:45 AM, July 30th, 2014 (Wednesday)]


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 718 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 4:50 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I.....am confused.


I refuse to let a wound ruin me.
**Guts over fear.**

Posts: 2064 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Illinois
5454real
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Default  Posted: 7:24 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just want one day as Tarl Cabot.

Since that ain't gonna happen......

I guess I'll just enjoy hump day!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
“I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.”
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:11 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, haven't seen a Gor reference...read that series a long time ago. It was pretty entertaining to a teenager from what I recall.

Nothing to see hear Ascendent. Move along.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 3914 | Registered: Dec 2011
HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 10:27 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Separation moving along SLOWLY. Trying to find a second home that isnt a shithole in my budget is difficult. 1st house offer not accepted due to my offer contingent on financing vs. other parties cash offer. Put in cash offer on 2nd house yesterday. Not optimistic but fingers crossed.

Average rent for a below average dump is $800-$1000 around here....if you can find one. Average mortgage around $400/mo, including tax / insurance. I damn sure cannot afford, nor can STBXW, $800-$1000 rent plus current bills. Neither one of us willing to commit financial suicide.....yet. A few more days of mind fuckery under one roof and one of us may cave.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 967 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 10:29 AM, July 30th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No sign of blood or wounds, just an empty bottle of Midol.

Don't knock Midol. I was really hurting one time and Midol from my wife's purse was the only available option. It put me in happy-land within 15 minutes. Strong enough for a man, but made for a woman.

Aw crap, gotta run. There's a Man-Card patrol heading this way...


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1376 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
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