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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 21
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 2:58 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Peace, gents. Remember, if they had their shit together none of us would be here in the first place.

Thanks jj for the link to the Dave Barry article. The guy is hilarious.


Me (BS)-45, WW-43
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

Posts: 1450 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Texas
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 3:32 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Peace, gents. Remember, if they had their shit together none of us would be here in the first place.

Too true. I suppose I should thank my wife for allowing me the pleasure to get to know you guys.


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HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll tip one to that Losferwords! Have a great evening gents, and remember; the worm at the bottom of the bottle AINT WORTH IT. You'll just wake up next to coyote ugly, or worse. Your WW, STBX, or EX. AINT FREAKING WORTH IT!

In my current sitch, its O'douls or bust.

[This message edited by HurtingandLost at 3:36 PM, August 1st (Friday)]


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 1032 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
numb&dumb
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Default  Posted: 3:53 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I been going through a rough patch myself guys and spending some time trying to help people in other forums out as means of understanding it.

But somehow I managed to come back for happy hour !

It is about time for SDWB to show up and call us all bitches ?


Me-35 her-35

DS 1, DD 6
Dday 8/31/11. ONS that occurred 3 years earlier. Lied to for 3 years.

Every truth comes to light in a long enough timeline.


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GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 4:33 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the airport waiting for an earlier flight back. Between nervousness and triggers, couldn't sleep last night, lost my flight this AM (but the other half of the team had a delay so it wasn't a problem other than having to change ticket). Loaded up on coffee.

Did demo, dog and pony show, and everybody seemed happy and excited to work with us (they kept bringing more and more people. Good sign). Boss/partner is very happy and congratulated me on how well I did - and I feel partly vindicated of the lack of productivity from WW's infidelity nightmare.

Thank you for the mojo guys, it worked. And the dog humor made it all cool!!


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 755 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
sunsetslost
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a good laugh gents!
(You too Tred)


I'm sorry. That's always fucking funny to me.


Divorced 7/11/14. New Beginning on the Gulf of Mexico. It's real nice.

Posts: 770 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: The beach.
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 10:50 PM, August 1st (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's weird how this shit plays out.

I saw "89 dicks" on the front page as the top post on NB and thought "I gotta click that." Lead to a pretty funny vid about dick pix.

I called my wife in halfway in cuz it was making me laugh. She had a few laughs but, mostly, that kind of unspoken awkward feeling.

I kinda feel like an ass because I didn't really put it together that she was watching that and feeling ashamed until I asked her what was up awhile later. On the up side, I didn't put it together until later.

So assuming she's honestly working on this shit, there will come a point where you can watch a 3 minute youtube vid about some chick talking about the silliness of dick pix - that you found linked off your infidelity support site - and not connect it to the dick pics some dude was sending your wife years ago.

Either that or I should seriously fucking look into long term memory issues.

I came for the pain and stuck around for the good company? Mostly I stuck around because I didn't get kicked out.


"You have insulted my footwear."

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nuance
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Default  Posted: 1:13 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ok, SG. What's the link?


Dday May 2000. R'ed.
People suck.

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Hurthalo
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Default  Posted: 7:17 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gentlemen of the realm. I was driving today and had a random playlist running on Spotify. Now, normally I'm not one to share schmaltzy rubbish, but the lyrics of this song floored me and nearly had me in tears. Either that or some arse was chopping onions in the back?

Give it a whirl with a beer/dram in hand, I am sure you will all relate.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7NMhjmLGRak

By the way, I have a feeling this guy is going to be huge...what an amazing soulful voice.


Forgive the unforgivable, or bear the unbearable.

Me BS (34) WW (29)
Married 2 years
2y old Daughter
D-Day 05 Nov 13


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gahurts
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Default  Posted: 8:45 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I don't pop by here very often and just wanted to say that this:

I came for the pain and stuck around for the good company

Is the best quote I've ever heard to describe SI. I think I'm going to add it to the quote thread (minus the question mark)

ETA: On second thought I think I'll quote the entire sentence. It's perfect.

Thanks StillGoing.

[This message edited by gahurts at 8:47 AM, August 2nd (Saturday)]


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 9:15 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ETA: On second thought I think I'll quote the entire sentence.

Yeah, wouldn't want anyone to take something SG said out of context. If you can figure what the context is to begin with.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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jjct
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Default  Posted: 11:05 AM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Tred

Yer killin me smalls!

HH - I can see why that song would do that...it's ok to grieve, and be weak for a time or times.
I grieve with you brother,
but let me tell you,

That's one reason why I've put my ear on a severely restricted diet; I want strength, not weakening. It's almost as if btwn one *love ya forever, baby* song and the next *she left me* song - always being brought up high and then to the low...it seems to harden my heart, or at least make it grow callouses...because of the need (my need) for emotional homeostasis...

I've been thinking about this.
To my thinking, music is different than poetry, in that it can subtly slide things into your consciousness (or even subconsciousness) using the vehicle of melody, beat, etc...
Whereas poetry is just. stark. Naked. Without *props*. It stands or falls on its own.

So, were I to write a poem with this stanza in it:

I have loved you for many years
Maybe I am just not enough

Well, I just wouldn't...because for all it's nakedness...good poetry, great poetry...is at last at its core - true.
That lyric isn't...it's emotionalism wrapped in rhyme (and a great voice)...
I don't blame the singer, and certainly not you for the tears! get 'em out! still, I want to encourage you forward, away from such outmoded, yet commonly accepted - & therefore unnecessarily hurtful as hell ideas, rhymes, songs, or cultural memes that it's somehow *something missing in you*.

In short, great voice. Makes me wanna stab the lyricist for making my buddy HH unnecessarily cry.

Illegitimi non carborundum brothers!
(sorry for the rantus vomitus)


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StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 1:04 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

At the root of it all, context is just bad writing.


"You have insulted my footwear."

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

context is just bad writing

I really need to talk to the author.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 1:24 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I see what you did there, SG, and this is my protext.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 5:57 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Play time! However, 214 prior to starting, 205lbs at finish. Still trying to figure a way to keep it drivable afterwards!

Happy weekend gents.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

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Tred
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Default  Posted: 7:21 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What the hell is that 545?


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What the hell is that 545?

WTA - What Tred asked.


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5454real
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Default  Posted: 7:56 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol, I was teaching a Jaws of Life class. Guys wanted to see how high we could get the steering wheel on a (I think) 99 or 2000 Chevy Lumina. It was about 90 with 80% humidity.

Actually fun to do!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2978 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
StillGoing
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Default  Posted: 7:57 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is that a pneumatic brace..?

eta:

One of those posting while he's hitting reply situations.

[This message edited by StillGoing at 7:57 PM, August 2nd (Saturday)]


"You have insulted my footwear."

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