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User Topic: Betrayed Men Part 21
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 7:59 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Damn, that sounds intense 54! I think it's safe to say you've earned yourself a cold beverage and meal of your choice.

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 8:16 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks! The spreaders operate w/about 20k spreading force and the cutters(not shown) operate at around 200k shearing force. Give me 15 minutes and....


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:47 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This was my day - John Deere therapy. Cutting, bush hogging, mowing. Heaven. Currently out of wood to split, so there you go. BTW - that's the MLC behind it.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 8:56 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful picture, Tred! Sweet ride! (both of them)

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's a great day Tred. The tomatoes look a hellu'va lot better than mine though.

I agree, sweet rides.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
slater13
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Default  Posted: 9:12 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Guys I really appreciate your help. It is weird. I ended up getting called after I posted yesterday and invited to a pub with some friends. So I went and ended up making plans for today. Spent 4 hours at the racetrack today driving my car. Man did I need that.

I am starting to realize - even this late- how much power I still give my wife over how I feel. Screw that. I am going to work on this.

Thanks again.

545- that looks sweet. Were you in a full suit in the heat?

[This message edited by slater13 at 9:13 PM, August 2nd (Saturday)]


The choices we make reveal the true nature of our character

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 9:22 PM, August 2nd (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Slater, absolutely.

I am starting to realize - even this late- how much power I still give my wife over how I feel. Screw that. I am going to work on this

Good answer.


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 2:57 PM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am starting to realize - even this late- how much power I still give my wife over how I feel. Screw that. I am going to work on this

Words to live by. I've caught myself slipping away from these words of wisdom off and on for several weeks.Few days of "fuck it all, I'm better than this shit" then BAM, drive by the shop with the kids to get movies and she's not there (even though she said she was and her hours say open), then I'm thinking SHIT another lie, stack em up and shovel them out. He can have her. But it still hits below the belt.

Here's to hoping for a step in the right direction tomorrow with the counter offer on a second house. If they accept it, she's outta here sooner rather than later.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

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Ascendant
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Default  Posted: 10:09 PM, August 3rd (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Had to share this silly shit for my nerdy brethren. Made me chortle.


I refuse to let a wound ruin me.
**Guts over fear.**

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mike7
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Default  Posted: 4:16 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

hang tough you phenomenal men. i'm going to be gone for a while. i'll see you on the flip side.

[This message edited by mike7 at 9:41 PM, August 7th (Thursday)]


BH 53
WW 52
Two kids 21, 18

DDay 1/15/2013


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Tred
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Default  Posted: 8:12 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Stay safe Mike. We'll be watching out for you.


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

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5454real
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Default  Posted: 8:36 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nice ride! stay safe and be well my friend!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2803 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
Sal1995
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Default  Posted: 10:35 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Godspeed Mike


Me (BS)-45, WW-42
DDay 2/17/13, 9-10 month PA/EA
Final NC late Feb. '13
M - 18 years, 4 children
Reconciling

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 1:54 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck, and stay safe, Mike. Will be thinking of you.

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HurtingandLost
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Default  Posted: 2:06 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Godspeed Mike.


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 967 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
FeelingMN
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great forecast Ascendent. Why does smiling feel so funny?


Me 41
fWW 37
DD(19), DS(17), DD(11) (Mine, hers, ours)
Together 14y, Married 12
DDay Aug 2010, 4 mos TT & gaslighting
ONS + EA after 15yr Class reunion out of state

Posts: 267 | Registered: May 2011 | From: Minnesota
mhca
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Default  Posted: 2:24 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

See ya mike. Thx for everything over in D/S.


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961


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GotPlayed
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

@mike7 Godspeed. We'll hold home fort for you. You make us all proud.


Master of my Fate, Captain of my Soul.
BS 42, WW 41. 18y married
DD: 11/5/13
DS10 Autism, DD8
OM: Reformed wife-beater ex-con
D filed 1/14/14 by WW (never warn them, they'll get ahead)
Married a powder keg

Posts: 718 | Registered: Nov 2013 | From: California
mhca
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Default  Posted: 5:23 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You fellas seen this? Hilarious:

Universal Hot/Crazy Matrix
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qHQWlFtSptU


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961


Posts: 573 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
FrmrBH80124
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes. It's freaking hilarious! So true!


ME - BH 45
Her - XWS 30
D - April 2010 - never looked back and good riddance.
Happily remarried!

Though much is taken, much abides; and though we are not now that strength which in old days
moved earth and heaven, that which we are, we are


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