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User Topic: D-day/ Antiversary
wannabenormal
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Default  Posted: 1:37 AM, June 28th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I realized today was the first time I didn't post about my "antiversary".

I started here in June 2008. I posted a lot, trying to fix things. Then I posted a ton more about how unfair it was that I couldn't fix things and how I was robbed and he sucked and so on.

I got so much advice that I ignored. WE were going to be different. Then I thought, ok,,it didn't work out initially but he'll come around! He didn't.

Then I remember reading it takes 2-5 years to get over 'this'. I remember thinking, "Surely it won't take me that long!". Well it did, it took the 5 yrs!

I posted ON my antiversary, about my antiversary for years. About how sad I was, about how unfair it all was!

This year - I didn't post. I see now I didn't even post that entire month and that's a really good thing!

We DO survive!!! Thanks SI and all my SI friends over the last 6 years!!



Posts: 14389 | Registered: Jun 2008
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 2:27 AM, June 28th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You were robbed and he does suck!!! ....but I am glad you moved past it all.

You navigated all the stages with strength, wit, and humor, and, company.


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5859 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
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