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User Topic: Investigating
Shinypenny
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Default  Posted: 3:36 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have a question. My WH has allowed me access to his accounts, however he admits to deleting emails and then deleting them from the deleted folder. We both have hotmail accounts. In my deleted folder it gives me the option at the bottom of the deleted folder to restore deleted emails. His does not give that option. Any ideas how I could recover them? I understand this is a shot in the dark. Just looking for the truth.


BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.

Posts: 48 | Registered: Jun 2014
Landoes
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Member # 40222
Default  Posted: 4:23 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Check the sent folder, that's how I uncovered more lies

Posts: 70 | Registered: Aug 2013
craig2001
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Default  Posted: 4:55 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

When you click on the Deleted folder in Hotmail, scroll all the way to the bottom and there should be a message that says "Lost a message? When you recover deleted messages, we bring back as many as we can..."

The recover deleted messages is a link.

If you have another computer, try his hotmail on it.


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Shinypenny
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Default  Posted: 5:24 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh the sent file and I are unfortunately acquainted. That's how I found his replys to craigslist ads. And I see the lost message link in mine, but not on his. Have tried on my iPad an PC. Is there a way he disabled or hid this? Makes me crazy suspicious!


BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.

Posts: 48 | Registered: Jun 2014
Shinypenny
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Member # 43702
Default  Posted: 7:29 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Does anyone know if there is a way to see which numbers are being texted without looking at his phone? We have sprint and I can see his calls, but only a total number of texts. Sorry. Just obsessing again.


BW- 39
WH- 38
Married 2009, together since 2003
DD 2
Dday 6/10/14 multiple EA's spanning our entire relationship, 1 PA with a 24 yo.

Posts: 48 | Registered: Jun 2014
mandolin555
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Default  Posted: 7:55 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you feel like this is the life you want or deserve? I think being an infidelity cop is more triggering to me than actually finding anything...because the whole time I'm searching, my heart is pounding and I feel sick...just waiting for the ax to drop!

In answer to your question...it might be best to do a voice activated recorder in his car or spyware for the phone. If you've been a member long enough or made enough posts you can find out how in that forum.


Posts: 102 | Registered: Feb 2014
Christy516
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Default  Posted: 9:46 PM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The only way to see sprint texted numbers is to go to their site, download the form requesting it, print it out, have it notarized and fax it back to them. They will then send you a disc with the numbers, times and dates only. No content. You have to be the account holder to do this. Good luck.


Me: 44
Him: 39
DD: 1/5/14 (the final one)
Trying to recover

Posts: 184 | Registered: Feb 2014
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