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User Topic: knock on wood...
Numb2014
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Default  Posted: 5:51 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So far, we are working on a "move out" plan that will be in the best interest of dd. I am hopeful that we can continue working amicably for dd. we have a time frame established (30 days) and we are going to discuss parenting schedules today. I have told him as of today, I will no longer pay his bills, so he is responsible for that from here on out, and he didn't protest that. We will do a 50/50 parenting plan as well. My dd needs both mommy and daddy equally and I will not use her as a pawn.

I am praying, and I am hopeful that I can just get through these next 30 days and that we can remain "amicable". I'm sure there will be something though. Praying hard....

on a separate note, I finally cried hysterically, and I feel a lot better. HOpefull this will hold me through the next 30 days and I have no more tears...


BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jun 2014
nekorb
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Default  Posted: 6:21 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

:::knocks on wood:::

Just be prepared for his attitude to change drastically the first time you give any pushback to something he wants.


Me: BS 44; Him: WH 47 aka CAT- colossal asshat; Married 22 years
D-day: July 17, 2013, with TT to follow
D filed July 16, 2014, 363 days later than I should have
Psalms 27:14
Wait for The Lord; be strong and take heart. Wait for the Lord.

Posts: 1838 | Registered: Aug 2013
Numb2014
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Member # 43919
Default  Posted: 6:28 PM, June 30th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

nekorb....EXACTLY. It will be like walking on egg shells, but I am tired of being a doormat. I will fight for ME and MY RESPECT. I am done playing his mind games.

I just want this to be over with.


BW-me (31)
WXH-him (30)
DD-4, DS-14
High school sweethearts. 14 years gone. He doesn't even care. It meant nothing to him.
False R-3/2011 to 6/2014
Found evidence going back 2 years. He's moving in with OW.

Posts: 233 | Registered: Jun 2014
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