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User Topic: Feeling slightly crazy
Jls0320
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Default  Posted: 2:13 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So last week I tested WH by texting his as the OW from another number, he passed. I still feel like there's more I don't know, he failed 2 questions on a polygraph about her but swears he was nervous and not lying. Here's where crazy comes in, I want to have "her" text me saying "we need to chat". My thinking is he may come clean if there's anything else to admit to out of fear "she" will tell me. Tell me I'm crazy insane.


Me: 33 BS 2 little boys
Him: 33 WH, too much too list, drowning in his sex addiction
Together 15yrs, married 6yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap
Separated, divorce filed, he loves his whore lol

Posts: 355 | Registered: Nov 2013
brokengirl37
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Default  Posted: 2:52 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think you are pain shopping which will make you feel crazy...but you are not crazy. Stop driving yourself mad. What is he doing to make you feel safe? If he says everything is out in the open then you sit back and let his actions do the talking...if something else comes out then you have your answer.

((((Jls0320))))


Me: 38
WH : 40
2 Boys Age 10, 13
D-Day Feb 16 2014
OW: My Co-worker

Posts: 66 | Registered: Feb 2014 | From: Canada
whereismylove
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You're not crazy. I know how it is you want to know the whole truth but that just adds to the list of triggers that ruins your day. Keep testing him no problem but if the affair really is over its better in my opinion to move past and heal and not try to find out all the details. It will just make you mad/sad/insane/sick all over again when you hear those details. Its really good that he didn't respond to those texts my husband can't help himself.


DDay: Nov.6th, Dec 24, Dec.27(2013) Jan 10th(2014) & texting during false R until July 2014.
Me : BS, 36. awesome doting wife & former stay @home mom now back 2school and work.
Him: WS, 43. EU spouse. 7 months long "accidental" affair. Fol

Posts: 68 | Registered: Dec 2013 | From: Northern California
Jls0320
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Member # 41192
Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks :) I got so much trickle truth about the situation, were just friends, then tells me some of the texts and comments when I'm about to find the answers on my own. He failed the poly when asked if he's had sex with her, but says he never did. I feel like he thinks he's gotten away with it so no need to admit to more which is why I want to shake him up and see if there's more he'd like to admit to


Me: 33 BS 2 little boys
Him: 33 WH, too much too list, drowning in his sex addiction
Together 15yrs, married 6yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap
Separated, divorce filed, he loves his whore lol

Posts: 355 | Registered: Nov 2013
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