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User Topic: You want to know your cheater - check this out
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Default  Posted: 2:46 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I pulled this down from another website. A good read overall. But this was my favorite excerpt on what a cheater is.

Irrelevant of the excuses and justifications, everybody knows it's wrong, everybody knows it ends their relationship right at that moment, caught or not. Every cheater would go ballistic if they found out they got cheated on.

People cheat because their emotionally immature. Simple.

I'd dump you're worthless ass in a nano second. Because it shows me you're incapeable of even knowing what a committed intimate relationship is, let alone you've got no strength, integrity, empathy or intelligence.

Oh and let me add, i've had a lot of experience, and emotionally immature cheaters always have a higher opinion of their worth and sexual prowess than is justified.

You're betraying, lying, selfish, manipulative personity is apparent in every part of you're life, not just you're sex life.

Her (WW 40s) Me (BH, 40s) very young DS & DD

Therefore, since we are receiving a kingdom that cannot be shaken, let us be thankful, and so worship God acceptably with reverence and awe, for our God is a consuming fire. Hebrews 12:29

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Default  Posted: 3:11 PM, July 1st (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent !!
Right on the money.

My fWW "went ballistic" when she thought I was having an A. I wasn't, but becdause she had one, she thought I was having an RA.

BH - 64
fWW - 60

"Affairs are not mistakes, they are a series of deliberate choices." - CrappyLife

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