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User Topic: What would you do?
Needadrink
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Default  Posted: 3:31 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Some days I am so obsessed with thoughts of going to her house. It's been a year and I am just so upset that she screwed my H on and off for 20 yrs and she gets away with it. Her H doesnt know, her kids don't know, they can just carry on with their day as though nothing has happened. She lives in another state so it would mean a plane trip, oh but I so want to surprise her by turning up on her doorstep. Will I ever get over these thoughts or do I do it, I would love some feedback from anyone in a similar situation. Thanks


BS 57
WH 58
M 28 yrs together 32
D Day 10th April 2013
20 Yrs of Infidelity with long term affair 18 yrs but only seen a couple of times a year. 3 Prostitutes, sexual Massages.Ongoing Porn. lapdances.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Aug 2013
Lowlow
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Member # 38653
Default  Posted: 3:43 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have you considered contacting her BS? I'm thinking that's a legitimate way to get revenge. Even better if you can send him photo or email evidence....


Me (BS) 42 Him (FWS) 43
AP#2 (LTA EA/PA) DD #1 16 Feb 2013
AP#1 (LTA EA with my BF) DD #2 16 Nov 2013
Married 11 years, T 19 years
Reconciling

Posts: 223 | Registered: Mar 2013
Needadrink
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Member # 40512
Default  Posted: 3:49 AM, July 2nd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I have tried to find him on every social media site possible and I can't find him. I know his name but it's almost as if he doesn't exist


BS 57
WH 58
M 28 yrs together 32
D Day 10th April 2013
20 Yrs of Infidelity with long term affair 18 yrs but only seen a couple of times a year. 3 Prostitutes, sexual Massages.Ongoing Porn. lapdances.

Posts: 88 | Registered: Aug 2013
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