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User Topic: Password therapy...I'm going to try this!
Exhausted in OH
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Default  Posted: 12:15 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

http://t.today.com/health/workout4abs-can-password-therapy-really-improve-your-life-1D79878858


BS 42(now 45), WH now 46
Married 15 (now 18!), together 22, 3 great kids - 15, 13, 10
DD Sept 2011 - 4mo PA; on DD also admitted to ONS in 2007
R going well
And now I realize...- Me OEA - old college friend
No longer exhausted nor in OH

Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2011
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 8:05 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I heard about this on the radio today. I hope that you find it works for you. It is working for me today.

#EatMorChocolate


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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WabiSabi
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Default  Posted: 8:17 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That is such an awesome idea!!! I'm going to try it. Thank you for sharing this.


Wabi Sabi… the beauty in imperfection. Struggling every day to find it.

Me: BW (45) Him: fWH (48) 3 kids M 21 yrs
7 mths INTENSE Sexting A w/COW (they sickly fantasized about ME)
D-day: 9/2/13
TT: Until 12/2013 (I read their deleted texts/Vomitted)


Posts: 116 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Midwest
CATransplant
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Default  Posted: 10:04 AM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wonderful idea. I think both myself and my fwh will be changing passwords around here. :)

Thank you Exhausted, I was needing a new tool to battle depression. I think you provided me with it.

Koodoo's to you


Me BS
H FWS
M 3/27/12 together since 06'
A EA/PA 4/19/13/5/26/13
DD 6/12/13
Forced NC 6/13/13
MOW coworker-caught,TT for six months.

Posts: 117 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: United States
Exhausted in OH
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Default  Posted: 12:56 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm one of the most pragmatic people you could ever meet. But I do think that there is something to be said about the power of positive thinking. And reading this small, cute article made me see that I've been a slave to negative thinking for far too long (what if....)

My first password change - Leturselfb3happy!


BS 42(now 45), WH now 46
Married 15 (now 18!), together 22, 3 great kids - 15, 13, 10
DD Sept 2011 - 4mo PA; on DD also admitted to ONS in 2007
R going well
And now I realize...- Me OEA - old college friend
No longer exhausted nor in OH

Posts: 439 | Registered: Dec 2011
AML04
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Default  Posted: 4:28 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this!!


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
3kids30years
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Default  Posted: 4:35 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great Idea!

After DDay WH and I both changed our passwords to remind us of each other - Birthday, Anniversary, kids birthdays, initials.

It does help.

Might be time to change it again

[This message edited by 3kids30years at 5:02 PM, July 3rd (Thursday)]


BS - mid 50's
WH - mid 50's
DDay - 3/2/13 - 2:07pm
TT until 9/02/13
NC broken 4/15/14
2year+ "passionate" EA/PA

Married 30+ years and here I am. Heartbroken.
4/14 Trying to make it thru each day
9/14 - getting better. we


Posts: 217 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Nor Cal
hopefull77
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, July 3rd (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


me-BS
him-WS
3 adult children 1D 2S
married-1977
LTA 09-2010 - 11-2012
D-day - 11-11-2012
status - reconciling and very hopeful
"Let Go of Control; Let God's Life Flow" ...Richard Rohr



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