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Excellent post. Thank you. I felt so stupid when I realized what was going on in my marriage. I was totally in denial and rugswept after WH's first, made up confession. Now I'm looking at the truth and wreckage of our life together and trying to reconcile. That so many people are going through this, too, is both depressing and comforting. SI is both a trigger and a help. (So are relationship books.) But I am learning.
Thanks so much, Tred. I had a rough weekend (emotionally) and really needed it.
Just wanted to bump this again. I have no idea if this is a trend since I wasn't on this site yet this time last year, but it appears to me anyway that the closer we get to the Holidays, the number of new folks I'm seeing on SI seems to be increasing a a greater rate. Haven't "done the math" or run the numbers, but just sayin'.
Anyway, whether or not I'm seeing a trend that may or may not exist, I know there are many here such as myself who are entering a Holiday season for the first time after dealing with this betrayal. As a group, as a family, we too shall get through this together. I have't even been here a year yet, but I already know this - it really, really does get better.
Strength and best wishes to you all.
so true Tred!
Thinking back, my biggest surprise was how 'text book' my story was. Oh, there were some very unique twists and turns, but the broadstrokes of the A, my response, etc - so common and predictable it was amazing!
Made me realize how naive I was...
bumping for the weekend. Hi Tred!
Maybe we could ask the mods to stick a thumbtack in this one? It's great!
Thank you for this post! I am 6 months out and just now finding the courage to post. I have discovered that even though a fair amount of people know what happened, nobody mentions it. The worst 6 months of my life and nobody asks how I am. So this site has been a life saver! It's reassuring to know I'm not alone in this shit storm!!
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