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Default  Posted: 10:39 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Excellent post. Thank you. I felt so stupid when I realized what was going on in my marriage. I was totally in denial and rugswept after WH's first, made up confession. Now I'm looking at the truth and wreckage of our life together and trying to reconcile. That so many people are going through this, too, is both depressing and comforting. SI is both a trigger and a help. (So are relationship books.) But I am learning.

Me-BS 50
Him-WS 50 Sorrowfulmate
Married 26 years, 5 kids
Dday #1 12/12 He made up a ONS
Dday #2. 3/14 EAs, 2 ONS, 1 LTA
TT until 7/14 Timeline given

Buttercup: We'll never survive.
Westley: Nonsense. You're only saying that because

Posts: 62 | Registered: Jul 2014
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Default  Posted: 10:52 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks so much, Tred. I had a rough weekend (emotionally) and really needed it.


Me: early 50's
WH: early 50's
Married: 23 years
DS: 21 years old
Other DS: 18 years old
D-day: 2/14/2014
H's AP lasted 6 years, but we are both trying hard to R.

Posts: 423 | Registered: May 2014
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Default  Posted: 1:06 PM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Married: 17 years (14 @JFO)
D-Day: 11/09/11
"Ohhhhh...shut up Tred!" - NOT the official SI motto (DS)

Posts: 4001 | Registered: Dec 2011
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Default  Posted: 10:12 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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