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User Topic: Please think happy thoughts for me & wh
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 7:23 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My wh has a job interview tomorrow. If he gets this job, it would mean great things for us..

When he started his a (5 years ago!) he'd just gotten a new job, making a good salary. He had graduated grad school and taken the first job he was offered four years before, which was great learning experience, but not great salary. The job that he met ow at was that great salary job, with added responsibilities from his first , entry level job.

Well, he royally screwed that up with a workplace affair topped off with drug abuse.

He got fired, went to another office, got fired from
There. It took him years to get his career back to starting point(he's making as much as he was at that first job he left. He's low man at the office now)

If he gets this job tomorrow, it's fantastic about the money ( the affair ruined our finances... Divorce, ow is a compulsive shopper , etc). But also, I'll feel like we are really R. Wh will have cleaned up all the mess he made with the A.

The A hurt us financially , and wh career wise. If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away

So please... Think happy thoughts for him tomorrow. It's not just a job :)


Posts: 1381 | Registered: Jan 2010
Daisy312
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Default  Posted: 7:31 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll keep my fingers crossed for him! This sounds like a great chance at a new beginning and you deserve it! :)

Posts: 264 | Registered: Sep 2012
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 7:40 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Just said a specific prayer for you both.

A's cost more than can ever be tallied...I pray for your financial peace and that peace is a stronghold from which you both can go forth and make peace in the other areas in your life affected by adultery and addictions.

God is with us all.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3666 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
deena04
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Default  Posted: 7:59 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy thoughts coming your way...


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 965 | Registered: Dec 2013
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:04 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending happy thoughts and mojo.

Posts: 35167 | Registered: Mar 2011
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 9:36 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lotsa mojo.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17390 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 10:00 AM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Count me in.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10076 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
callmesteph
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Default  Posted: 12:49 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Gottagetthrough.....

If he can get this job, the A will truly be a memory. We can buy a house, put down roots... Be in the place where we were when he stared his A, before he threw everything away.

I know how it feels when you want something soooo bad because it becomes a turning point in your life. I will pray and hope for the best.

Good luck to both of you!


BS: me (41) WS: him (42)
M:12 yrs T:23 yrs 3 kids (4,7,9)
DDay: 12/3/2013
OW#1- 2 1/2 yr A; OW#2-2mth A; +escorts
In Reconcilation

Posts: 50 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: USA
Skan
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Default  Posted: 1:29 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Many happy thoughts and much mojo!


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



Posts: 4804 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: So California
mhca
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Default  Posted: 1:50 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((Gottagetthrough)) best wishes for you both. To have made it this far means you're both strong people.


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 595 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
Gottagetthrough
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Default  Posted: 9:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you all so
Much. I really love this site & all of the support. To have you all understand what this job means ... Indescribable.

I haven't told wh how much this job means to me... That would be too much pressure. But to be able to tell you all and have you understand means so mucch.

Thank you

[This message edited by Gottagetthrough at 9:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday)]


Posts: 1381 | Registered: Jan 2010
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 9:29 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending the happiest of thoughts for a good outcome!


I bow to those who keep their hearts open when it is most difficult, those who refuse to keep their armor on any longer than they have to, those who recognize the courage at the heart of vulnerability. - Jeff Brown

Posts: 17318 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
Feelthrownaway
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Default  Posted: 11:07 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Happy thoughts coming your way !


BW- 48
FWH-49
D-day- aug 16,2011
Married 22 years- together 25

What doesn't kill me, scars me.


Posts: 1021 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Down South
karmahappens
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Default  Posted: 11:10 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Fingers crossed!!

Hoping for good news when you find out!


“And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom”
Anaïs Nin
Me: 45
Him: 47
Dday 8/2007
We have R'd

Posts: 3800 | Registered: Jun 2012 | From: Massachusetts
sinsof thefather
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Default  Posted: 2:57 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Add me to the list of sending positive vibes - I really hope he gets the job.


...second star to the right and straight on till morning.

Posts: 1875 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: UK
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