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User Topic: The Karma bus is a rollin'
Flatlined123
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Default  Posted: 4:57 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

During the A, one of H friends knew, but didn't say anything or try to tell H to get his head together and stop. H said friends only comment was "I can't judge you." Needless, to say he and H are not buddies now.

So we were sitting with someone who knows "friend" last night and it was mentioned that his wife cheated on him. My first thought was I wonder if he's going to "judge" his wife for cheating.



Me: BS 43
H : WS 46
DD #1 7-11-08
DD#2 8-21-09 same OW, A never ended.
Started R in 12-09
"If what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, I should be able to bench press a Buick."

Posts: 677 | Registered: Jun 2012
Want2help
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Default  Posted: 5:54 PM, July 6th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ha! While I'd like to say "I don't wish that on ANYBODY." I'd be lying. I wish it on people like that.


BS- me.
FWS- him.
DDay 6/07 (immediately separated)
RDay 8/07
OC born 3/08
OC Adopted 2014

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Posts: 2312 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: PNW
FixYou71
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Default  Posted: 12:44 AM, July 7th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow. People really are so detached from the pain BSs go through as the result of an A. I wish there was a way for society as a whole to somehow get a glimpse into how devastating it really is. I hope someone writes a best selling book or a screenplay that portrays the lives of 3 or 4 WS/BSs and accurately depicts the nightmare and the emotional dungeon we are thrown in. I, for one, would like the world to know (as much as is possible).


BS: 43
H: 49
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 21 and DS 17
Married 1993

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