During the A, one of H friends knew, but didn't say anything or try to tell H to get his head together and stop. H said friends only comment was "I can't judge you." Needless, to say he and H are not buddies now.
So we were sitting with someone who knows "friend" last night and it was mentioned that his wife cheated on him. My first thought was I wonder if he's going to "judge" his wife for cheating.