DDay 1 - 1/13, False Recovery Discovered more + Broken NC so DDay2= 7/14
9/9/14: filed for divorce
BW: 42 (me)
WH: 40 (him)
So there you go. I say, whatever works for you is what you should do. :)
We had a good counselor.
It was hard, I did it, I'm never doing that again. I can't imagine going through that for anyone else, with anyone else, again.
Expensive as well, none covered by insurance. Now, maybe we can put a new roof on the house.
I made it very clear to my H that he could shape to hell up or ship to hell out, without much in between. I was actually quite shocked that he chose the former and we are still together, closer than ever 8 years later.
[This message edited by Bobbi_sue at 3:37 AM, July 8th (Tuesday)]