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User Topic: Continuation - week 2 after D day
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 9:35 AM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh!

This man is NOT remorseful in the LEAST!

He thinks everything he did was A-OK and that YOU'RE the problem and you just need to shut the hell up and move on.

After all, it's YOU 'hurting the baby.'

What a crock of bull.

And you're right to suspect a lot more. The guy is very practiced at deceit. For every rat you DO see, there are 50 you DON'T.


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
NeverAgain2013
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

ArkLaMiss - well, at least there's no risk for STD because he hasn't touched me in 18 months.

And he'd HONESTLY have you believe he's been a choir boy and only 'kissed' one woman in these last 18 months?

I'd order up a polygraph test for Mr. Unremorseful. But I have to tell you, you don't nearly know the whole story. You only uncapped the very tip of the iceberg.


Be careful - that 'knight in shining armor' may very well be nothing more than an assclown wrapped in tin foil.
ME: 50+ years old and cute as a button :-)
Ex-WBF: Just a lying, cheating, gravy-sucking pig - and I left him in 2012.

Posts: 1753 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: USA
crazycatlady
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Default  Posted: 11:46 AM, July 8th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bitch boots on. Who the fuck does he think he is. Dates? Kissing women. And he's married wit a child. Time to lace up and get mad.

No contact unless it's finances or child care.
180 and move on. Get allies, you have the now get them.

See a lawyer too. Good luck.


Love all, trust a few. Do wrong to none.
William Shakespeare "All's Well That Ends Well"
D-Day: Nov 30, 2006
"For I have sworn thee fair, and thought thee bright, who art as black as hell, as dark as night."
William Shakespeare

Posts: 1713 | Registered: Dec 2006 | From: Etherville
Tigaress
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Default  Posted: 6:04 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He is here, my husband is visiting. He is in the living room with the baby and my mother. I am hiding out in the bedroom. Made him announce his visit - he hates it - and told him I was not ready to see him. But now I feel like a coward, locking myself here. On the other hand, if I go outside I know that I'll end up talking to him and it won't be a short conversation. And I don't have the strength for that at this point, I finally managed to pull myself together a bit. He is going to travel out of the country in a week and will probably take some of his things with him today. I told him I would sit with him and talk when he's back, in about a month. Why am I feeling that it's the wrong thing to stay in here and avoid him?

Posts: 158 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: New York
Tigaress
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Default  Posted: 6:08 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Also - I had requested that he'd end all contact with the woman (the one he 'only kissed') and he said yes he'd do that. But I have not heard anything else about that since. Assuming he hasn't done it, right? It was my condition for talking to him ... :-(

Posts: 158 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: New York
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