My husband had an EA with a co-worker (most probably a PA too, I doubt they were only talking about their days, like he wants me to believe).
I am itching to sender COW BH an email, with all my findings, and the phone's bill, where he can see for himself the 1700 texts in September.
My WH was the COW's manager in a big firm. I already checked if she could sue us for sexual harassment, but since it was 2 consensual adults, it's not possible. (At least one good news).
I would love to get the transcripts of the texts, because if there were any arrangements to meet at a hotel, they probably texted. So I could finally know for sure. However, to get the transcripts, I will need to go through my wH's boss. And this is a real problem, because my WH would most probably get the sack (due to the amount of texts), and so we would lose our only income.
Anybody has any idea how to get the transcripts, or if it's a good idea to go through his boss?
Thanks for your help.Some days I feel we will make it. And some days I wonder if it wouldn't be easier to start afresh.
BH: me (40)
WH: him (45)
Married for 20 years
My husband had an EA (prob PA but doesn't admit it) with a co-worker last year.