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User Topic: If you could write a letter to OP
Softcentre
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Default  Posted: 1:22 AM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I wouldn't but in my lowest moment, I might think:

To OW #?,

So you got sucked in too? Now you get to be the one he casts as the bad guy/spoilsport so that he can cheat. That should do your low self esteem a world of good. Have fun! Beep, beep

Softcentre

To STBXWH,

Thank you, not for the multiple A's, but for ending the false R and leaving. Since you left my health has improved so much! I'm also getting all those DIY jobs done and the house has never looked better. Oh and I'm loving camping, since you left, and Judge Judy, and being emotionally vulnerable without fearing it will be used against me.

I must admit to feeling a bit sorry for you, I know what it's like having to live with a passive aggressive adulterer and liar. I'm guessing by your appearance that you're avoiding looking in mirrors at the moment?

Anyway, got to go. I have more DIY to do. Loving my home now!

Softcentre


Me: BW
Him: STBXWH 'The Arse' likes strong but broken OW
OW - EA - 'Holy Chick'
COW - Suspected EA/PA 'The Ambassador'
COW - Susp EA 'The Baker'
COW - EA/PA 'Fat Bottomed Girl'
COW - Susp EA 'MiniMe'

Posts: 1056 | Registered: May 2013 | From: UK
Saadnblu
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Default  Posted: 6:12 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would say: you are cursed. May you some day experience the terrible pain and the trauma that my little boy and I went through at your hand, and the hand of my boy's father. May you be exposed for the hypocrite you are: working to better the situation of women and children, while destroying our family. May you always be haunted by the damage you have caused. You are cursed.

I think this every day. Sometimes I scream it and kick the wall. Along with other curses. But lately, not so much. Maybe that's an improvement.


Me: 58, SAHM
Him: 58, LTA 2.5 years
Married 9 years, together 15
Dday: June 11 2013
DD 9 years
Separated

Posts: 57 | Registered: Aug 2013
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