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User Topic: finding a place to live
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 8:54 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Put in an application for a place that will probably rule out downtown as a commute destination but fits all my other criteria. Basically it comes down to, pick any two:

* Good schools
* Good price
* Ideal location

Fortunately there are plenty of jobs in my field that are not downtown. I still have another application in, in another place that's in a better location, but that one is taking forever to process.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 843 | Registered: Nov 2012
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 7:54 PM, July 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So after 15 days I believe I have finally found a place! Max rush hour commute that I might be subjected to is 30 minutes, which is higher than I wanted but not the end of the world, and it's a nice central location near a good school, recent (90s) construction, has a washer/dryer, and I like the look of the immediate area. Assuming I don't change my mind in the next day, I'll be moving in Saturday morning. With my entire carload of stuff, ha.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 843 | Registered: Nov 2012
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Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, July 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay!!! Congrats


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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 2:15 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I took possession today. Seems like a nice place so far.

I still find it bizarre, being from high desert, that the vast majority of places here don't have a/c (but they don't really need it much).

The apartment complex I'm at says if I do opt to get A/C, they'll be happy to install a window unit for me if I need help.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 843 | Registered: Nov 2012
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 4:11 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I moved in and my bed is set up, and even more importantly my Internet seems to work, and my desktop computer is working, so I can watch movies to wind down at night again (I use a TV for the monitor).. nicer with a couch and a desk of course, but you know, one thing at a time..

Also I'm meeting a couple friends of a close friend of mine from the city I moved from who live within like 3 or so miles from me tomorrow for lunch. They are married to each other and have two young kids.

Plus it seems that there's a couple people from SI who live in the area who I can meet, at least one of which has kids.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

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WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 7:38 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations!!!


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ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 11:16 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thank you. :)

I purchased a ticket for my daughter to come here in about 3 and a half weeks, just now.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 843 | Registered: Nov 2012
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