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User Topic: WS plays Kisa to me
RightTrack
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Default  Posted: 1:33 AM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My WS liked the ego boost of playing the KISA role with OW. He saved her from her "neglectful" husband and listened to her talk about her problems for hours, etc. etc.

I never was that needy. I never had a whole lot of problems before this! (minus medical stuff that I didn't want to dwell on)

Now when I want to talk about the A, and when I let him know how hurt I am from it....it seems to turn him on. It's weird and it's not what I need from him. I don't think he's getting turned on by thoughts of his AP, I wonder if it's another opportunity to play KISA that does it. Anyone have something similar?


Posts: 631 | Registered: Sep 2012
OakStreet
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Default  Posted: 7:42 AM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't say I experienced that scenario.

Hell, I would have been happy if my WH had even listened to me in the weeks after Dday.

But I sure know about WS's need for an ego-boost!


Me: 58
Him: 65
Married: 21 years (well, we'll say 19 now!).
One son: 19, 2 adult stepdaughters
DDay: Oct. 14, 2013
18 month EA/PA with COW
Dday #2: 4/16/14 - took it underground for 5 months.
Haven't decided on outcome.

Posts: 503 | Registered: Nov 2013
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