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User Topic: I suddenly lost my appetite - Ow siting.
heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 1:27 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Today turned shitty really quick. I went to a place to eat on campus...that is always empty. I passed all of WH's type workers (he no longer works there), to purposely AVOID seeing the WHORE.

I walked in and there the HORRIBLE, UGLY SLUT HOE BAG was. UGH.

I ordered my food, and had to go RIGHT NEXT to her table where her and another lady were sitting. I WAS SHAKING SO BAD just from the mere sight of her I could hardly get my drink.

I purposely looked at her and rolled my eyes and made a look of disgust.

And I turned and said to her "I have suddenly lost my appetite". I went around a corner and avoided her.

I walked out so fast and I was so upset (still am) and I was hot and red and sweating and shaking uncontrollable.

I hate her so much.

I hear from my friend in her dept, that GET THIS!:?@ SHE FILED HARASSMENT ON SOMEONE. WTF?@! She filed harassment on a man, BUT SHE IS GUILTY OF IT HERSELF!!!!!! Apparently it got to the point in our workplace where a "trial" would happen, and she chickened out and decided to withdrawl.

I told WH about it, and he said that he was sorry and he pointed out that he no longer works there and got a job somewhere else. I told him yes, the fact he works somewhere else is better, but it still HAPPENED.

I am so sick to my stomach, and wish the Karma bus would hit her right in the fucking face already.


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 549 | Registered: Jan 2013
Razor
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Default  Posted: 1:35 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

heartbroken2012.

so sorry to hear about you running into the OW. I think you handled it well.. you managed to not get arrested and OW didnt end up wearing your lunch. For that I say GOOD JOB!

Ive never run into OM in public. I can actually feel my blood pressure rise just thinking about it. You handled your situation much better than I probably would.


Forgive and forget = Relive and regret.

Hope in reality is the worst of all evils because it prolongs the torments of man.
Friedrich Nietzsche


Posts: 3483 | Registered: Sep 2007
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 1:37 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you managed to not get arrested and OW didnt end up wearing your lunch.

word. Good job.


his Dday: 2/10
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

Me: I didn't sign up for this.
Him: you're already in this. All you can do is resign...


Posts: 4962 | Registered: Dec 2010
soccermom9
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Default  Posted: 1:41 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You did well to walk away without acting! I dont know that I could have done that!


Me: 44
WH: 43
Dday: 6-20-14
He admitted to drunken sex at massage parlor!
Attempting reconciliation

Posts: 66 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Kentucky
heartbroken2012
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Default  Posted: 1:43 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmm...if I had thought about "accidentally" dumping my lunch on her....I might have.


BS(Me) - 32
WS(HUbbie) - 40
OW - 44 (a ugly, old, white trash horse faced Coworker)
Affair was 2 months long
3 kids - 5yr old, and twins 8 months
Dday - 12/25/12 (lots of signs before I should have seen)

Posts: 549 | Registered: Jan 2013
TimeToGo2014
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Default  Posted: 2:02 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh. So sorry for the run in, dear. You handled yourself well. Keep reminding yourself not to let her see how she affects you. You being cool, calm, collected will show her you're stronger than her and stronger than their lousy affair.


Posts: 71 | Registered: Jun 2014
Sunnydaysahead
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Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job keeping your cool!! There isn't anything worse than coming in contact with the OW.....it brings back the memories and the pain.

Not that it matters, but I am sure she was squirming in her seat worried about what you might say.

Hope the rest of your day went much better!!


Posts: 63 | Registered: Jun 2014
TattoodChinaDoll
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 9th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hmmmm....seems like a common OW thing. COW in my case filed for harassment against the supervisor that came on after WH/STBX had left. I hope she dies.

I'm sorry you had to deal with that.


Me (BW): 32
WH: 33 TimeToManUp
Married: 11 years, together 16 years
3 daughters: 9, 5, 3, and and 2 angel babies (2013 and 2014)
D-Day: 12/21/2011
Confronted him: 12/22/2011


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