It's frustrating that I had to stand there and be accused of mismanagement, when it was she who threatened to divorce me if I didn't adopt a child with her (after I told her it would be financially difficult for us). It was she who wanted the 25k car instead of something less expensive. It is she who has her AP taking out all of his assets and putting it into a house for them. And I'm the one mismanaging? Gaaaaaaah. I want to be divorced!
"Sometimes it takes a good fall to know where you really stand."
I know how you feel about hoping/planning/assuming you'd be divorced. I was there two months ago. I feel so frustrated for you, kg201.