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User Topic: Read the decree, idiot...
Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 10:31 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So XPOS found out that I signed off with parental consent for DD17 to enlist in the Coast Guard. He threw a major mantrum and argued that he needed to be informed first, he needed to also sign off, etc. He knew she was considering it, and was okay with that, but didn't know she took the leap. I had to remind him to read our D decree again and pay very close attention to the part where it lists me as sole legal and physical parent. Though I was tempted to add, maybe it would help to get someone to interpret that for you, but chose to leave off the snarly ending. The butt-hurt look on his face was quite priceless, and a surprise, like somehow he forgot about those little legal technicalities...


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1189 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
homewrecked2011
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Default  Posted: 10:36 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They r legends in their own minds,,, thinking they r superior to us. Nice when reality hits them in between the eyes.


me BS 52
him - 46
married 15 years DIVORCED 10 31 12
children - ds15 ds12
d-day 12-19-11
I gave a 24hour ultimatum then went to attorney next day
Divorce filed

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peridot
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Default  Posted: 11:11 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Lol


I think...therefore, I'm single.

It is what it is.


Posts: 4788 | Registered: Feb 2008
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:36 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sad that the king in his own mind had to deal with reality...


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4607 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
Dreamboat
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Default  Posted: 11:50 PM, July 10th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

What a moron. Aside from the fact that you have sole legal custody, your DD is 17. Does anyone really think that you can tell a 17 yr old what to do or not do??

Besides the fact that she is a HS graduate and will presumable be 18 and of legal age within the next 12 months (unless you have found a way to keep kids frozen in time....) So she can make decisions on her own without any input for idiot.

If it wasn't a total waste of oxygen then you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD. But I know that logic makes no difference to morons like him so why waste your breathe. Easier on his low mental capacity to blame you.

(((hugs)))


And it's hard to dance with a devil on your back
So shake him off
-- Shake It Out, Florence And The Machine

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Phoenix1
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Default  Posted: 12:08 AM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

you might suggest that he actually TALK to his child about her desired direction in life and express any concerns he may have directly to his virtually-adult DD.

Except that DD has gone NC on his sorry ass! She gives crickets any of the rare times he tries to contact her.

She will be 18 in three months, but that escapes him as well.

He did the same with DS when DS wanted to enlist at 17, TWO months before he both graduated and turned 18. We got in a big argument back then as well.

I think it is part of his control freak issues, and he HATES not having ultimate control. Nah, he's just a simple idiot...

[This message edited by Phoenix1 at 12:08 AM, July 11th (Friday)]


BS - Me
XPOS - too many OW/OCs over 20+yrs
Kids - DDs 23,18 -DS20 Deceased
M Dissolved 2013

This above all: to thine own self be true, and it must follow, as the night the day, thou canst not then be false to any man ~ Shakespeare, Hamlet


Posts: 1189 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Rising out of Hell's ashes!
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