Believe me, if I didn't have kids who could get hurt, I would have been there and her job
I won't put my kids at jeopardy of having to hear the gossip. It's their friends mom. It would be all over the school they all attend, the town. Etc. I won't make my kids have to deal w that when they know their dad and mom at having some issues. That's hard enough
Plus she's a teacher. We were all close. Too much hurt that I could avoid for my kids and hers.
I'll sacrifice this. It's on her. Not me