pizzalover- my BH recently told me that he thinks we are your relationship-doppelgangers.
And, I believe he is correct that we have many similarities in our stories.
This post has really hit me. I also want to say a quick thank you to FRM for constantly pushing all of us here to think.
I have done such terrible things. The guilt really gets me down sometimes. This weekend BH and I were clipping our dog's nails, and I accidentally cut one too far back. My dog cried out and it started bleeding immediately. I almost hyperventilated. BH tried to comfort me and all I could say was, "I don't want to hurt anyone any more."
Of course, I was thinking about the pain I caused him.