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User Topic: ocean
ProbableIceCream
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Default  Posted: 6:58 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I drove to the ocean today (90 minute drive each way). It was all foggy and misty and about 60 degrees. Pretty nice. I'm generally sort of numb so only some of the 'nice' gets through, but I'm glad I went anyway.


Me, 32. DD, 8. DS, 6 (deceased).

Posts: 828 | Registered: Nov 2012
gahurts
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Default  Posted: 7:02 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Walking on the beach can be very relaxing. I miss living close enough where I can just take a day trip at a moment's notice.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
better4me
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Default  Posted: 8:38 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"pretty nice" is pretty good when you're numb. Keep having and appreciating the "pretty nice" experiences and maybe some more nice feelings will filter through. I'm glad you went too.


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:52
Divorced

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Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 9:47 PM, July 11th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sounds wonderful!


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9672 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
Bluebird26
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Default  Posted: 5:57 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Keep visiting it. The ocean is very soothing to the soul.


"Loving someone should not mean losing you. Love empowers you. It shouldn't erase you. - Thelma Davis.

Posts: 1333 | Registered: Aug 2012 | From: Australia
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PIC,

Time wasted at the beach is time well wasted!!

Eventually numb nice gets better.

Hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5083 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
norabird
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Default  Posted: 12:29 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Aw, I love picturing this.

What a great drive! Here's to many more.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4165 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
PurpleRose
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Default  Posted: 10:16 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The ocean is a therapeutic. I arrived yesterday and plan to thoroughly enjoy myself!


divorced the Dooosh
*****************************
even if you find your voice,
sometimes it does not matter anymore,
when you speak to a man who is deaf by choice.
~dodinsky

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burnt_toast
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Default  Posted: 10:53 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Doing something for yourself can just be great.

For me contemplation does the exact opposite: if I'm in pain it'll put it on hold. I just absorb the beauty and let it sink in.


It is what it is.

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