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User Topic: Promotion had!!!!!!!
deena04
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Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 8:37 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yay! Great job!!


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 1070 | Registered: Dec 2013
FixYou71
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Member # 42654
Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

PTL! Congrats Blakesteele!


BS: 43
H: 49
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 21 and DS 17
Married 1993

Posts: 451 | Registered: Mar 2014
Neverwudaguessed
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Member # 41884
Default  Posted: 10:13 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow! What an especially sweet victory when you consider all that you had dealt with up to that day, hours prior to the interview and since. Your strength and courage give us all hope and warms my heart. CONGRATULATIONS!! well deserved.


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

Posts: 642 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: New York
5454real
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Member # 37455
Default  Posted: 11:54 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome!


BH 51, WW 42
DS 23(Mine),SD 21,SS 20(Hers),DS 9 Ours, DGS 3, DGD 1 mo
D=Day #1 5/04EA (Rugswept)
D-Day #2 3/10/12, TT til 3/13/12
Married 10yrs
I have no love for a friend who loves in words alone.
― Sophocles, Antigone

Posts: 2984 | Registered: Nov 2012 | From: midwest
mhca
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Member # 41920
Default  Posted: 12:06 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh wow, I know this was a big one for you. Congrats!!


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

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Posts: 782 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
ItsaClimb
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Member # 37107
Default  Posted: 4:12 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Congratulations blake, SO thrilled for you!


BS 46
Together 29 yrs, M 25 years
2 daughters 24yo(married with a brand new little daughter) & 19yo
D-Day 18 Aug 2012
6mth EA lead to 4mth PA with CO-W. I found out 8 1/2 yrs later

Posts: 1022 | Registered: Oct 2012
catlover50
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Member # 37154
Default  Posted: 4:44 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's wonderful; good for you!!



Dday -9/24/2012
Reconciling

Posts: 1748 | Registered: Oct 2012 | From: northeast
blakesteele
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Member # 38044
Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for chiming in!!!!!

It does feel good.

Peace.


ME: 42 BH, I don't PM female members
SHE: 38 EA
Married: 15 years
Together: 17 years
D/Day 9-10-12
NC: 10-25-12
NC: Broken early November 2012, OM not respond
2 girls; 7 and 10
Fear is payments on debts you have not

Posts: 3971 | Registered: Jan 2013 | From: Central Missouri
brokensmile322
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Member # 35758
Default  Posted: 8:26 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Great job, Blakesteele! You should be proud. Nothing shows how much you have grown than persevering through this interview AND landing the job just minutes after finding out about dday 3.

Celebrate you! You deserve it!


Me BS 42 Him WS 44
OW Coworker DDay April 7, 2012
EA on a slippery slope...

When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves. ~Viktor Frankl

"When you are happy, you can forgive a great deal."


Posts: 1541 | Registered: Jun 2012
SadFlower
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Default  Posted: 9:25 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so happy for you, Blakesteele. Congratulations!


Me: BW, age 66
Him: WH, age 64
Married 19 years
In R.

D-Day: August 14, 2012
9 year LTA with former co-worker and family "friend"/7 years EA+PA, 2 more years EA


Posts: 408 | Registered: Dec 2012 | From: Connecticut
spond
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Member # 41686
Default  Posted: 2:45 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Awesome job Blake!!! Like there was really a doubt in mgmt's minds!!


BH(me) | fWW
2 Kids - Married 2002
D-Day TT & EA | D-Day #2 PA
Reconciling

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