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User Topic: Off on vacation!
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 11:26 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking forward to getting out of town. May try to get tix to home run derby!
Posting here as MIL decided to join us later in the week and my new authentic self will be answering much differently when she says, "I should be helping with meals."!!!! Have mercy!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.


Posts: 5242 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:28 AM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good luck, and have fun, Rachel!


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Sunnydaysahead
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Funny  Posted: 1:38 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have a great time on vacation!!! Good luck with MIL and your new authentic self. Hope MIL is a good cook...I would have some menu suggestions ready to whip out when she mentions she should help.

Home run derby would be a blast! I hope you are able to go!


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sisoon
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Default  Posted: 1:49 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm all for authenticity, but ... I wish you the best with MIL. Moms and MILs are different, IMO....


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10341 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
AML04
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Default  Posted: 7:23 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Have fun!!! And maybe find some inventive ways she can "help" with meals. Make her your sous chef, lol.

Good luck!!


Me-BS Him-WH DS 5/12
Met 2000, Married 2004
DDay 5/26/13, TT through 8/13
2.5 yr EA w/co-worker, PA 12/12 to 4/13
Hopeful for R

Posts: 875 | Registered: Jun 2013 | From: MA
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 7:30 PM, July 12th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Good idea...


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

The conditions we face do not define us. They remind us of who we are and who we want to be.


Posts: 5242 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
bionicgal
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

We are headed out on "vacation" too - which involves seeing 2 sets of grandparents (each with their own FOO challenges) and one estranged MIL.

Ya'll wish me luck.


me - BS (40s)
DDay - June 2013, A was 2+ months, EA then PA
In MC & Reconciling
An affair is a personal crisis, not a relationship.

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Posts: 2055 | Registered: Jul 2013 | From: USA
Neverwudaguessed
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, July 13th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Given my situation with my own mother in law, I am really feeling for you guys! Hope you both enjoy your time away from home anyway: a change of scenery should be a good thing despite them!!!!


BW: 44 Me
WH:48
DDay1 9-9-13 (18th Wedding Anniversary) 6 wk EA, 1 wk PA
DDay2: 10-25-13 EA/PA with same OW 12 1/2 years ago for 3 months
OW: XGF Predator who never stopped pursuing WH
DS 13
DD 11

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