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User Topic: Now this is a great profile on O L D
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 7:26 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, he has photos. On his boat. Or his friend's boat. Or something. Not sure.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
tryingagain74
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Default  Posted: 8:22 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

He sounds like one of the guys phmh dated (no offense, phmh-- you just have the best dating stories ever, and I admire you for your courage and tenacity in the scary world of dating)!


BS (Me) 39
Happily liberated!
Two DS and One DD
It matters not how strait the gate,/How charged with punishments the scroll./I am the master of my fate:/I am the captain of my soul.--"Invictus," William Ernest Henley

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FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, he mentions that he can have a fun date at Home Depot. Could turn out to be a Cheesy Nut Man.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17704 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 8:54 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

But it's so purple prose-y that it raises red flags for me. It feels manipulative to me.

DING DING DING DING
Yes, that's exactly what it is. If this were written as some article or blog post it would be entertaining and certainly worth the read. However, to post in his OLD profile comes off as trying sell himself with his jaded-yet-sincere tone.

It is well written. Please remember though to carefully craft what he wrote took time and purpose. This is not some extemporaneous musing on the challenges of OLD. It is part of his profile which is intended to draw attention and attract others. His "wit and wisdom" are the peacock's plume of his online profile.


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D final 8/2012

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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 3:00 PM, July 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Waaay too much like something my ex would write - very proud of his wordcrafting and ability to sound like a deep thinker. I'd run from this just based on my own experience, not necessarily because the guy warrants it. But he does sound awfully full of himself.


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better4me
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Default  Posted: 7:36 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Cheesy Nut Man.
I miss that guy!


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