My emotions are a little...haywire so I needed somewhere to spew / vent.
I wonder a next question, which is how to protect yourself from creditors you don't know you have?
And...what next? Will I ever be free, even when I'm free?
A person is a person, no matter how small. -Dr. Suess
Perserverance and spirit have done wonders in all ages.
[This message edited by deena04 at 6:27 PM, July 12th (Saturday)]
When you need new credit or a loan, you can unfreeze it online in minutes. It's really not a problem at all. I don't understand why everybody doesn't do this as standard procedure, much less if they are dealing with a divorce since the ex knows all the information to commit identity theft.
You've gotten some really good advice. Make sure you follow through with all of the advice. Don't let this go! I can tell you from experience there is probably more and they probably won't stop at this if this is all they have done so far.
Another thing I thought of is to place a password on all your accounts... bank accounts, credit cards, utilities, etc.
It is what it is.
Two steps forward and one step backwards, is still progress.
Will see what L says, share these ideas with him and proceed. Switching has been really good.
WH says marriage is over: May 15, 2009.
EA#2 July 20, 2009. Legally sep: Aug 16, 2009. DIVORCED!!!! Signed Nov 23, final Dec 24, 2010, adultery listed.
An acquaintance said to me, "maybe this is an example of the lousy life OW had before and she thinks stealing mine will be better".
I'm down lately because this is causing flashbacks, like when I discovered her use of my pictures on facebook with her name, her kid, my x, my kid, my dog, my house, my vacations, my parties I had for him...for some reason this girl wants the life I took 20 years to build and thinks she can just have it.
Out in the common area yard where I live now is a small hole, maybe a vole. On walks with kids, I think sometimes it would be nice if I could fit into it and then I get mad and won't be chased away from where I live, til I'm ready to go. I hate it anyway but stay on for kids. Apt isn't bad, just the town and area suck.
ETA that I managed to get a message to Perv about this subject. I acted a little dumb and asked, "How did my name get on the address where you live now?" well, no response came for a day and then today I have a message that says, "Oh, the company musta merged accounts." Well, I never had account there with my name!
His controlling self put everything in his name, but it's dupin' 'im now!
[This message edited by Ashland13 at 6:38 PM, July 13th (Sunday)]