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User Topic: I'm to believe this BS?!?!?
katiescarlett
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Default  Posted: 7:16 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So, I'm supposed to believe that my lying WH texted "I love you. I miss you. I wish you were in my arms" to just a friend? This same friend he called stunning and admitted he had a drunken sexual encounter with, I'm supposed to buy that?

For 5 years this text has haunted my memory. I never forgot it. It is burned in my brain and I remember how I felt when I saw it. I was pregnant and started shaking and felt so cold. Like my heart froze. I just want the damn truth.


MH-27
MH-28
3 boys
My D-Day July 2014 and numerous others.
His D-Day 8-20-14

Posts: 105 | Registered: May 2014
rachelc
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Default  Posted: 7:19 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Honey why are you staying ? Would he come here to post if you are going to recover?

Hugs !!!


his Dday: 2/10 but TT until 7/11
my Ddays: 1/12, 4/12 broken NC 12/12

me (WW/BS): 48
him: (BS/WH)52
4 kiddos in mid 20's

“Follow your intuition. Be smart, be brave. Tell the truth and don’t take any shit.”


Posts: 5319 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: Midwest
TS68
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Default  Posted: 7:22 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

No, you shouldn't believe what he told you. Do you know anything else?
Did something trigger you to ask now after 5 years? Just goes to show, unresolved lies never really go away.
I know how you feel. Sorry...
You should have some real advice soon.


Married 20 years

Posts: 233 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Trust your gut, it doesn't lie.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5318 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Dark Inertia
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Default  Posted: 7:49 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It doesn't get any more blatant. To believe it is a "just friends" relationship would be foolish.


"If I listened earlier, I wouldn't be here. But that's just the trouble with me. I give myself very good advice, but I very seldom follow it."

Posts: 1293 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: The Ohio
h0peless
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Default  Posted: 7:52 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It's ab out as believable as the model who claims to survive off of sunlight. It's a bald faced lie.

Posts: 1749 | Registered: Sep 2012 | From: Baja Arizona
katiescarlett
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Member # 43399
Default  Posted: 8:11 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't quote on my phone.

I'm staying because I love him. Our marriage isn't all terrible. There's a lot of wonderful.

My recent Dday is what triggered me. I found a FB message on Dday to this "friend" calling her stunning and saying he missed her. He only admitted today that they fooled around once before he and I started dating.

I have never believed she was just a friend or that the text was even to her. I also never found proof of anything else between them.

I'll never know now. I should have called the number and confronted when I found it. I thought of messaging her on FB too but it's been so long.


MH-27
MH-28
3 boys
My D-Day July 2014 and numerous others.
His D-Day 8-20-14

Posts: 105 | Registered: May 2014
Ostrich80
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Default  Posted: 1:58 AM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'll never know now.

I think you do know. just because you can't confirm doesn't mean it didn't happen. Our gut feelings are real. I'm so sorry he has caused you so much pain


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5167 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
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