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User Topic: Making it Through Anniversary
Brokenheart15
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Default  Posted: 8:02 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Tomorrow would have been our second wedding anniversary (though we've been together 8 years). I'm feeling pretty down tonight and heart broken thinking about all of the empty promises and everything this marriage could have been. Just curious to see what others did to make it through the first anniversary after D Day?

Posts: 8 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Arizona
BlueBlueEyes
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Brokenheart,
I found out two weeks prior to my 30th anniversary. I wish I'd ended things before I was in too deep. I don't think I've said that before. It's just hard to regain trust when you feel so betrayed. I wish you strength and wisdom. Some things really aren't meant to be :(


BW - 49
WH - 50
Married 30 years
Beautiful Son, Daughter and 2 Grandsons.

OW - multiple, just found out about ALL of them, Husband coming out of years of fog due to multiple childhood and military events.

Hopeful but cautious


Posts: 194 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Texas
mhca
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Default  Posted: 9:00 PM, July 14th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My 19th was last week. Very painful when we woke up, such a sad situation. But we resolved to have a nice day and we did, mostly. I think modest expectations helped.

[This message edited by mhca at 11:47 PM, July 14th (Monday)]


Me: BH 47 STBXWW 47 (Lklb5)
M 19 years, DS 15, DS 11
DD#1: 12/24/2013
TT/Broke NC/False R
DD#2: 4/15/2014
TT 4/23, 4/24, 5/31, 7/19
Divorcing

Sample recovery plan, feedback welcome: http://www.survivinginfidelity.com/forums.asp?tid=539961


Posts: 595 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: California
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