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User Topic: he abused my kids....wow...
caregiver9000
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Default  Posted: 9:27 PM, July 26th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Do you have a DV advocate? Make sure they are involved. I am baffled at the lack of action on your kids' behalf.

Thinking of you and hoping you get IRL support.

(((hugs)))


Me: 44, independent, happy, despite co-parenting with a lower muppet
FT "Stretch" (and Skew!) ;)
DS 13 DS 10
S 5/2010
D 12/2012

Posts: 5911 | Registered: May 2010 | From: a better place
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 28th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I would consider going to the news or putting it on social media. You'd be surprised how quickly they respond once they have eyes on them.

Sounds to me like this cop didn't want to do the work that would be involved with something like this. Lazy POS.


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3493 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
sparkysable
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

any updates?


D-day OW#1 2/2004; R for 6 years; D-day OW#2 5/2010

Marriages that start this way, stepping over the bodies of loved ones as the giddy couple walks down the aisle, are not likely to last.


Posts: 3493 | Registered: Mar 2004 | From: NY
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, July 29th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can you go to court and get some sort of emergency protection order for your kids? I would be afraid to drop them off with him after you went to police. I would be afraid he would hurt them again to try and get back at you, to punish you.

[This message edited by simplydevastated at 10:03 AM, July 30th (Wednesday)]


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
debbysbaby
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Default  Posted: 11:23 AM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Oh my gosh. I just read your update and I am so sorry things have turned out this way. How are you and the kids? I'd love to hear some good news but given the way things have been going for you I'm doubtful.

Finding out your ex was run over by a car would be fabulous.


-betrayed almost my whole almost 15 yr marriage
-divorced since 2004

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StillStanding1
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, August 5th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

How are you doing, teeghan? Sending hugs and strength.


Me: 40s BS, Him: 40s WH
M 21 yrs - 3 teens
LTA = 2+ yrs, Dday = 2/10/13, he moved out, he officially moved back in 1/25/14 and our work continues...

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