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User Topic: How do you know the affair is really over?
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Default  Posted: 11:52 PM, July 17th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Looking back I think the biggest indicator was inconsistency with moods My wife's moods would often did not match our home environment while she was having an affair. On some days I could do no right, on other days I could do no wrong. When I repeated rights, they became wrong.

For example, I took our boys camping. She loved it, I thought. She called me often. I thought maybe she was thinking I was being a great father and that she missed us. However, she was not so nice the next time I took our boys camping. It was her guilt driving her mood, not our comping.


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