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User Topic: MC cancelled tonight. So disappointed
JustOneMoreDay
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Default  Posted: 3:41 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh.

Frustrated.

We have a really good MC and I have a great IC but unfortunately, both are super booked up all the time. MC only works one evening a week and we have to do evenings because Of WS's job. Lots of other couple must have the same issue because we only get an appointment about once a month. This is our 5th MC. She is fabulous plus she is covered under WS's health plan(which the others haven't been). Anyway, WS is delayed out of town tonight which means he has to cancel and I, likely, won't get another appointment for a month. I needed it this evening. I don't want to go another month feeling this distraught. I feel like my feelings are validated when I am there. It's the only time I feel that way(at IC as well). I don't have close friends to talk to about this.

Super disappointed. That's all I wanted to say. Anyone else stuck dealing with this alone?


Me -BS 39
Him-WS 38
Dday #1 February 14, 2003 EA(not a typo. He did it AGAIN eleven years later)
Dday #2 March 17, 2014 LT PA
Dday #3 June 29, 2014(found evidence something had gone on with his sister's best friend)
Dying Inside and in limbo

Posts: 124 | Registered: Mar 2014
Tearsoflove
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Default  Posted: 3:57 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Can't you go without him for one night? Maybe you could discuss the issues that leave you feeling like you really need MC right now.


"Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand." ~Homer Simpson


Posts: 4089 | Registered: Sep 2005
JustOneMoreDay
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Member # 42945
Default  Posted: 5:06 PM, July 15th (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The MC actually called and suggested I come alone so I am going to but she doesn't have another evening appt. until mid-September. My schedule is flexible. WS schedule is not. It is looking more and more like this is done.


Me -BS 39
Him-WS 38
Dday #1 February 14, 2003 EA(not a typo. He did it AGAIN eleven years later)
Dday #2 March 17, 2014 LT PA
Dday #3 June 29, 2014(found evidence something had gone on with his sister's best friend)
Dying Inside and in limbo

Posts: 124 | Registered: Mar 2014
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