I know if this happened to me, as a BS, I would think it was an intentional jab. Like "you're having a good time right now but just remember that I can eff other women."
But whenever I read a post like this I wonder if it's the opposite. I wonder if after months of living a lie, of constantly sneaking around and being constantly on alert and afraid of getting caught, if WSs let their guard down and slip BECAUSE they aren't thinking of the OM/OW now that the truth is out and they are no longer in the A.
Apple, if you were still in the A, do you think you would have let OW's name slip? Were there other times that you didn't say her name, in any context, out of fear of getting caught?