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User Topic: This is amazing
Unagie
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Default  Posted: 10:26 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Hey guys guess what!? I like compliments but I don't need them. Im capable of knowing I look nice and not feeling like I need to constantly hear it. When I ask if something looks nice its not fishing or for ego k ibbles its because im unsure of it in the moment. When people compliment me I can accept it and not focus on it. Wanna know why? Because im learning to love me. Im learning that im ok in my skin. This post is to share that as a wayward we can get here. I am still learning and growing but for all this struggling today from one struggling wayward to another...we can do this.


Heartbroken madhatter trying to rebuild

No longer together

"There are times when our reality is nothing but pain, and to escape that pain the mind must leave reality behind." Patrick Rothfuss


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DrJekyll
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Default  Posted: 11:08 AM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the Encouragement!!


I am no longer Dr. Jekyll or Mr. Hyde. I am me, and they are both part of me.

"If you don't eat the elephant in one bite, it might trample you while chewing"

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Posts: 843 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: Midwest
Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 1:10 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So important. Love this post, Unagie.


"If the path you walk leads back to yourself, you'll never get anywhere." - Master Oogway

Posts: 18350 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: California
BrokenButTrying
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Default  Posted: 1:55 PM, July 16th (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Love this post!

I decided that if I'm unsure about an outfit/item of clothing then I'll be very specific about what I ask. In the past, I would have said 'does this look ok?' Which would have inevitably lead to the compliment I was searching for. My more recent questions have been 'does this top go with these trousers?' Or (while wearing two different shoes) 'which shoes look better with this outfit?' I'm proud of that boundary I've created to stop me going on the hunt for ego kibbles.

If I think I look nice then that's all that matters!

[This message edited by BrokenButTrying at 1:55 PM, July 16th (Wednesday)]


Me - 27
Him - 27
Madhatters

My Ddays - Jan 2010 & 12/04/14
His Dday - 23/12/13

Chin up. Unwavering. Fight. I can do this.


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