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User Topic: Best friend's wife passed
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 9:33 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


My best friend's wife has been in the hospital for almost 7 months suffering from diabetes and other related illnesses.

She was put into a medically induced coma about a week ago after she passed and they brought her back. A brain scan showed no activity yesterday and they got her into hospice about midnight last night. She passed about 2 hours later.

Hospice is a Godsend. It takes the burden of the spouse having to make the decision of when all hope is gone and it's time to pull the plug. I'm actually glad it happened this way for him. I feared he couldn't have lived with the decision if he had to make it.

((((Mary))) Gods speed to you


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5456 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
Deeply Scared
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

RIP Mary.

You're a really good friend WHG...I'm sure your friend is eternally grateful to have you with him through this painful journey.


"Don't give up, the beginning is always the hardest." My Mom:)

My tolerance for stupid shit is getting less and less.


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norabird
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Default  Posted: 9:50 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending my thoughts to your friend and to Mary. And to you, too.

((((Mary))))


(((WHG)))))


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4203 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
jo2love
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Default  Posted: 9:56 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((WG))) (((Friend and family))

I'm so sorry for your loss.


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InnerLight
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Default  Posted: 10:13 AM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. Something similar happened recently with my sisters husband. He was in a coma with no hope of a meaningful recovery. I was with my sister when they pulled the plug and he passed after 2 hours. It is heartbreaking. I hope you have the strength to support your best friend whether it's listening, helping him to eat meals, or planning the memorial.


BS, now age 53, d-day 6-2-08, divorced after 17 years M and 20 together. In some ways I have not 'gotten over it'. But I am resilient and have created a good life where I am mostly happy.

Posts: 5895 | Registered: Jun 2008 | From: Rural California
wifehad5
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Default  Posted: 12:41 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((WG)))


FBH - 42
FWW - 43 (BrokenRoad)
2 kids 7&12

The people you do your life with shape the life you live


Posts: 37610 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Michigan
LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 12:42 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry to hear that, WHG. My condolences to you, your friend, and their family.

(((WHG)))


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yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 12:50 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry to hear this WHG. MY thoughts are with you and your friend.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2349 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
WarehouseGuy
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm gonna show him this thread. He might like to see the sympathy and empathy from complete strangers. Probably not now--probably in a few days. Don't know if it will help him or not--but it's nice to know that complete strangers care.

Thanks guys.

whg


If you see your ex with someone else--don't be jealous. Our parents taught us to give our old,used toys to the less fortunate.

Posts: 5456 | Registered: Dec 2004 | From: Michigan
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 3:02 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

You are a true friend, WG.

I am sorry for the passing of your BF's wife.

Sending prayers to BF and family.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 3:05 PM, July 18th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very sorry for your friend, but I'm glad he has such a good friend in you!!! Our friends and family are what gets us through.

(((WG and Friend)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


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Catwoman
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Default  Posted: 9:20 AM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry for you and your friend. It sounds like he did the right thing. Hospice is such a Godsend.

Cat


FBS: Married 20 years, 2 daughters 25 and 22. Divorced by the grace of GOD.
D-Days: 2/23/93; 10/11/97; 3/5/03
Ex & OW Broke up 12-10
"An erection does not count as personal growth."

Posts: 29710 | Registered: Apr 2003 | From: Massachusetts
Lostly
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Default  Posted: 10:41 AM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. What an awful loss. Sending prayers and love to both you and your dear friend.


BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids Dd 19; Ds 17; Dd 15; Ds 13; Ds 11; Dd 10

Sometimes I hear my voice, and it's been here, silent all these years. I've been here, silent all these years.


Posts: 107 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Australia
TS68
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Default  Posted: 12:04 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Maybe transferring her to hospice gave her permission to let go... Permission to give up the fight... Maybe it was the last gift of love he could give her...

The weather here in Michigan reflects your loss today.

(((((Friend & Mary)))))
(((((Whg)))))


Married 20 years

Posts: 249 | Registered: Aug 2013 | From: Midwest
nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 8:59 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I can't say enough good things about hospice. So glad your friend had that support during such a terrible time.

Keeping him, his family, and you in my thoughts.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 1:46 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

The hospice people are truly angels on Earth!!

(((Mary)))

((Friends and family of Mary)))

May peace be with you all.


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lynnm1947
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Default  Posted: 9:38 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((warehouseguy)))


Age: 64..ummmmmmm, no...............65....no...oh, hell born in 1947. You figure it out!

"I could have missed the pain, but I would have had to miss the dance." Garth Brooks


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