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Default  Posted: 9:30 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sending hugs and support your way. BlueBlueeyes said it perfectly. He is starting to justify his behavior. You cannot live in the marriage you are in. It is not fair to you. He is manipulating you deliberately. Failing to communicate does not include name calling and threats. That is exactly what he is doing.

Until you draw the line in the sand, he will continue. You may draw and he walks away. But you then know you are making the best decision for you. You are not in a healthy relationship. If he really wants to change things, let him demonstrate it after the line is drawn and he HAS to PROVE remorse. Right now he has none...

Me-51 BS
Him 58-WS
Married 31 yrs, together 34
Affair Aug-Dec 09
official D-12/14/09
broke NC 1/31/10
second D 3/19/10

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