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Nikk
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Default  Posted: 8:40 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

BS ONLY

[This message edited by SI Staff at 9:48 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday)]


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sarahstar
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Default  Posted: 8:49 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I totally understand where outtanowhere is coming from but as blunt as what Nikk is, I like hearing the perspective from the WH's as well. Trying to come to terms that my WH went with a prostitute recently, I personally need both BS and WH views. I certainly don't think what he is doing is right but it is still good getting some insight how a male thinks.

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outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 9:08 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sarastar, I struggle to understand this too but, this is the JFO forum and according to the guidelines, way wards are asked to not post here. It can be very triggery for some of us.


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 38 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

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Pass
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Default  Posted: 9:10 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I certainly don't think what he is doing is right but it is still good getting some insight how a male thinks.

That is how one male thinks. I was in a lousy, abusive marriage. I never even considered looking for sex outside the marriage. You did NOT drive your husband to this: He did it because he is broken.


Loyal spouse: Me; Disloyal spouse: The Princess
Two sons: Now 11 and 14
DDay: Nov 15, 2012
Separated: Mar 2, 2013 after 17 year marriage, now divorcing!

The best thing about hitting rock bottom is that everything after that looks fucking fabulous


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sarahstar
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Default  Posted: 9:21 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

outtanowhere, just saw that now, that the WS's not supposed to post here.

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outtanowhere
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Default  Posted: 9:26 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks Pass! I needed that!


BS - 58
SAWH - 61 multiple encounters with prostitutes and other sex workers
Married 38 years
Dday - 2/19/13 - found the emails
He promised me Heaven then put me thru hell

Posts: 747 | Registered: Apr 2013
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