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User Topic: Triggering so bad today
Jls0320
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Default  Posted: 12:26 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

WH is working today, he hasn't worked a weekend in a few months but I had a bad Saturday back in January which involved his EAP. I was doing good today until I tried to call (straight to VM), and text (bounced back to me), then unable to locate phone on find iPhone app. I'm freaking a bit and wanted to verify he was at work but now cannot and have to wait until he calls or comes home. This sucks so bad


Me: 33 BS 2 boys (2yr & 5yr)
Him: 33 WH, sex addict, then 12 mos EA/2 mos PA with co-worker whore
Together 15yrs, married 7yrs
Dday 9/17/2013, more discovered 1/26/14
NC broken 7/28/14- pathetic piece of crap PA began.
Separated, R during divor

Posts: 507 | Registered: Nov 2013
KatyDo
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Default  Posted: 3:06 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Triggers are so hard to deal with. Remember there is extra emotion that makes things seem worse than they may be. Hoping all works out. Totally get how you feel.


Married 7 years, together for 14
Me: BS Him: chronic boundary issues, EA for 2 years, DD Spring 2013

Posts: 194 | Registered: Nov 2013
lifeistough
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Default  Posted: 4:51 PM, July 19th (Saturday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Ugh, that makes for a long day. You have every right to ask some specific and pointed questions when he gets home so you can be satisfied. Hang in there.

Posts: 18 | Registered: Jul 2014
Skan
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Default  Posted: 10:21 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hope that today was better. (((hugs)))


Imagine a ship trying to set sail while towing an anchor. Cutting free is not a gift to the anchor. You must release that burden, not because the anchor is worthy, but because the ship is.

D-Day, June 10, 2012



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