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User Topic: Crush leaves party w someone else
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Sad  Posted: 6:01 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I know it's probably for the best...we work together...but it still hurts

This woman was like a heat seeking missile...it was hard watching her go after him and him responding

Forcing myself to go to the gym today even though I feel crappy (beers @ party).


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 7:00 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((hugs))))


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


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Kajem
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Default  Posted: 7:02 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((((((Why?)))))))))

So hard to watch that happen.

Hoping you feel better after the workout.

More hugs,
K


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

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Default  Posted: 8:35 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks guys. Outside walking by the water before gym opens.


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 8:38 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That sucks. I'm sorry.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 8:48 AM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Why)))


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Whalers11
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Default  Posted: 12:23 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

This is the story of my life. I am always interested in guys who are interested in someone else.

It sucks, big time. Hurts every time.


Me: BGF - 33
Together 11+ years - not married, no children.
D-Day: 2/9/2010
OC Born: 10/9/2010
Status: He chose OW/OC and left immediately.

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brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 12:27 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry (((why))).


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


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Default  Posted: 3:52 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sorry you've dealt with this too Whalers

So now the fun part tomorrow...acting normal. I guess this is why so many advise against dating at work (not that we did or that he knew about my crush). If I ignore him or act different he might realize what happened.

Fun.


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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Lostly
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Default  Posted: 7:40 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so sorry. I have had that happen, and its never fun.

Have you ever read the book "Why Men Love Bitches"? Its a dating advice book that's based on common sense and self respect. Its a little like the 180 of dating. I probably made every mistake in the book until I read that. I've always had a lot of guys interested, just not the ones I liked. Once I started to do some of the things suggested in the book that changed, to my utter amazement. I wish I had known this stuff in college!

Amazon has over 500 positive reviews on it, if you would like to find out more.

I hope all goes well at work tomorrow.


BW 48 - Multiple d-days
Divorced 2012 after 19 yrs
6 smart, beautiful, amazing kids Dd 19; Ds 17; Dd 15; Ds 13; Ds 11; Dd 10

Sometimes I hear my voice, and it's been here, silent all these years. I've been here, silent all these years.


Posts: 107 | Registered: Jul 2014 | From: Australia
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Default  Posted: 8:29 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yes! I have the book but it's been a while since I read it.

I've been on a dating break for a year and need a refresher for sure.

Not sure about tomorrow. It will be hard for me but in time I hope it gets better.

Thanks for all the support!


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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Default  Posted: 10:38 PM, July 20th (Sunday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Why)))

I've been there...it sucks.

"Date Like A Grown Up" by Bobbi Palmer is also a good book...


DDay 11/17/2010 BW:53
Divorced

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Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Let us know how today went. Sending you good thoughts.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

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Default  Posted: 5:20 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It was ok I guess. He of course was acting normal no reason for him not to.

I am going to try and cut down on emails and trips to his office for work stuff. I did used to stop by more w work stuff but also because I wanted to see him.

It has been so long since I have liked someone...boo.


"Don't let the fear of striking out keep you from playing the game."

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