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User Topic: He's separated????!!!!!! wth
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 12:11 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm convinced we must kiss a pond full of frogs before the prince actually appears.

^^^AGREED. A big ass pond.


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
cmego
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Default  Posted: 1:59 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Right. The point is...you are running away from this guy.

That is showing you that broken DOES NOT attract you.

This is good.


me...BS, 43 years old, 2 small kids
WS, 41, multiple gay affairs
M 15 years, together 17
Divorced

"For whatever we lose, like a you or a me, it's always ourselves we find in the sea" ee cummings


Posts: 4157 | Registered: Dec 2010 | From: South
She11ybeanz
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Why is a part of me so disappointed? I feel like a child that just found out her cookie was broccoli...


"Sometimes your knight in shining armor ...is just a douchebag in tin foil!!"

ME - BW - 35
HIM - XWH - 39
D day: November 15th, 2009
Married: 5 Years, together 8
Divorced: December 13th, 2010
New Beginning: Piper/8-3-12


Posts: 2722 | Registered: Feb 2010 | From: Virginia
WeepingBuddhist
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Default  Posted: 2:44 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

God, that's even worse when the "chocolate chip" turns out to be oatmeal raisin!


Me: BS 46
Him: unimportant
D Day:4-27-13
DIVORCED!!! 2-20-14

Posts: 568 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Columbus
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 6:24 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I feel like a child that just found out her cookie was broccoli...

Good, tempted by something that is bad for you and discovering something that does not taste as good but is much healthier - the strength to walk away.


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1257 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Jeaniegirl
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Default  Posted: 12:05 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Way to stay on top of things, Shelly Girl! We have all seen your pictures and you are beautiful and that sweet little girl is icing on the cake! Your prince WILL come along because you deserve him. I fully expect we will be helping to plan a wedding for you within the next year to 18 months.

[This message edited by Jeaniegirl at 12:06 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday)]


"Because I deserve better"

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Red Sox Nation
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Default  Posted: 8:31 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Separated... OK... probably not.

Separated, filed, living completely apart, emotionally available... maybe.

Separated and still emotionally involved and having deep discussions about the relationship... forget it.

Any kind of lie about status, age, etc... forget it.

Swimsuit on first date... wrong message.

Introductions to your friends in cute swimsuits on first date... WTF?

Toddler daughter on first date... NO!

I know you're very much wanting to find a relationship right now, but your boundaries are not good at all. While I don't think broken attracts broken - nor do I think you're really broken - you are receiving terrible advice from your friends.

[This message edited by Red Sox Nation at 8:31 PM, July 23rd (Wednesday)]


When someone tells you who she is, listen; when someone shows you who she is, listen carefully.

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