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User Topic: xh - say it isn't so...
fraeuken
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Shutup  Posted: 10:55 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DDs came back from a 12 day trip to what used to be 'our family lake home' in the Midwest. In attendance on this vacation were their father, pregnant sparkly panties, her daughter, her parents and her two brothers with wives and children.

Without going into details that may bore you - the vacation was a total disaster. Nothing was good enough for the new in-laws in a nutshell, older brother would get drunk and be obnoxious, new family did not help clean the house and ended up putting holes in the walls, sparkly panties and xh would fight over money, entertainment, cleaning chores... you get the picture.

So XH finally vented to DD16 - how this was the family from hell, how they were taking advantage of him, how he was unhappy with sparkly panties' response and how calm and peaceful it used to be in the past when him, the girls and I and our extended family would go up there and that he wishes it was like that again.

Say it isn't so.... 2 1/2 years ago, when he dumped not only me and the girls but also cut all ties with my parents and his own family, this 'new' family was the best thing since sliced bread - generous, fun, kind, helpful, worldly...

I have now super-sized the popcorn and beer as I lean back and watch how this train wreck is accelerating...


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1255 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 10:57 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Bazingah.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17395 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
GabyBaby
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Default  Posted: 11:03 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that may be the most beautiful thing I've read all day.

Pass the popcorn - is it extra butter?


Me - 40s
SorryInSac - WH#2 - 40s. DDay 7/12/14
Married 4, together 7yrs total
Status - ??

DD(21), DS(18, PDD-NOS)
6 Furkids - 4 dogs, 2 cats

WXH (serial cheater, 12+ OW)
Legally married 18yrs, together 16.5yrs

I edit often for clarity.


Posts: 6443 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: California
Brandon808
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Default  Posted: 11:20 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So what does he want DD16 to do? Put her arm around him and comfort him?

What a tool.


xBH
D final 8/2012

Posts: 3822 | Registered: May 2012 | From: southeast
Williesmom
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Default  Posted: 11:31 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Yeah, if I were DD, I would have let him have it - right in the nuts.

Pass the popcorn.


You can stuff your sorries in a sack, mister. -George Costanza
There is a special place in hell for women who don't help other women. - Madeleine Albright

Posts: 7659 | Registered: Feb 2009 | From: Western PA
norabird
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Default  Posted: 11:37 AM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Asshat.

Also, no detail is too boring.


Sit. Feast on your life.

Posts: 4173 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: NYC
Vulcanized
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Default  Posted: 12:28 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing better than when they get exactly what they want. And deserve.


Me: MH 40s; Him: MH 40s (I had RA)
OW: 30s, moron; one of many
M: 8 yrs
3/13: D'd
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Everything is as it should be.

Posts: 753 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Vulcania
brokeninfl
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Default  Posted: 12:30 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Nothing better than when they get exactly what they want. And deserve.

This. Totally.

I am sorry your DD had to listen to his drivel, but it is nice to actually get confirmation that their rainbow and unicorn world is gone like you knew it would be.


"On the other side of fear lies freedom"

Me - 36 BS
Him - doesn't matter
2 DS
DD 11/08
Divorced.


Posts: 1074 | Registered: Dec 2008
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:55 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I hate to say it but someone has contracted a bad case of unihorn-up-the-ass syndrome.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17395 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Charity411
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That's totally awesome. Not for your DD but definately for you.

Posts: 336 | Registered: Oct 2013 | From: Illinois
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 4:09 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9687 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 4:45 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

DD16 was less than thrilled over the entire vacation, but last night, when she was telling me all this and I could barely keep a straight face, we eventually broke down in laughter over the absurdity of all this.

Did I mention 'new' uncle who would get drunk every night tried to light fireworks in his drunken ways and set the bushes on fire, while another day he was wearing a white Speedo that became see-through in the water....

And, since nobody is there to take care of stuff for XH anymore such as taking batteries out of the boats and jet skis over the winter, they broke down with the fishing boat due to a bad battery in the middle of the lake and had to paddle back to the boat station, where they then tried to pull the boat out of the water onto the trailer but since they had been too lazy to put enough gas in the car the car died on the boat ramp with the trailer and boat half-submerged in the water?

Or the fact that new in-laws, when splitting the bill, only pay for their entrees but not tax or tip or appetizers or drinks and leave XH to pay for it so heated debates at the dinner table ensue because XH is fed up having to flip the bill?

Or the fact that sparkly panties was yelling at XH over not having all the 'toys' such as the boat ready for them and being upset that XH refused to pay for all groceries for 13 people for 12 days?

Or drunken uncle starting a family feud on vacation over the fact that he thinks his younger brother is the favorite and throwing himself two birthday dinners while at the house?

Or the fact that sparkly panties' mother would rally her own grandchild to get DD11 and her friend in trouble? Or the fact that drunken uncle told XH in front of DD11 that DD11 being there was a nuisance because now sparkly panties' daughter naturally wanted to play with the girls and not with his son?

I could go on and on and on but two things had me jump to action today and sent XH a written message in cc to my lawyer:

- drunken uncle in his drunken state trying to crawl into bed with the kids including DDs.
- sparkly panties' mother telling my DDs not to eat ice cream because they are "fat" already.

Both DDs were totally shocked by drunken uncle's action and his crude behavior. Neither of my DDs are overweight in any shape or form, they are perfectly fine for their height and age, both athletic and muscular and neither will I tolerate such talk or action by any stranger or family member when it comes to DDs.

So I am looking at this with a mixture of sadness and satisfaction - knowing he had it coming and it is finally hitting him, but sad for DDs to have to endure this and sad for XH giving up his parents and family and mine and never looking back - giving it up for this?!?@



Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1255 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 5:00 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

OK, creepy drunk uncle? Baaaaaaad news.... I hope your lawyer throws a serious wobbler and gets a court order for no more contact with that idiot.

This, however:

And, since nobody is there to take care of stuff for XH anymore such as taking batteries out of the boats and jet skis over the winter, they broke down with the fishing boat due to a bad battery in the middle of the lake and had to paddle back to the boat station, where they then tried to pull the boat out of the water onto the trailer but since they had been too lazy to put enough gas in the car the car died on the boat ramp with the trailer and boat half-submerged in the water?

IS HILARIOUS!

You can't make this shit up...


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17395 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
AmSoDone
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Default  Posted: 5:02 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear God what a sad saga. Would be funny if it wasn't for the fact your poor DD's had to put up with this crap.

((Hugs)) to your DD's. Such a shame they had to go through this otherwise it would be truly satisfying to sit back and watch WH get what he deserved.


BP(me) 50
WP (scumbag) 52
On-off for 32 years
1DD
1 DGD
Too many D Days to count. Same with OW.

Posts: 131 | Registered: Jun 2014 | From: UK
shiloe
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Default  Posted: 5:21 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I think that may be the most beautiful thing I've read all day

Me too.

Hope I get to hear that kinda thing someday in the future too.


But remember, good love is hard to find . . -Tom Petty and the Heartbreakers
BS - 54
Cheater -54
Married 26 yrs
DD - 21 DD -19 DS-17
A#1 2000 with married ho-worker/neighbor ow#1
A#2 2007-? OW#2 LTA with married ho-worker. Kicked him out, he filed

Posts: 592 | Registered: Mar 2003
Riskybusiness
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Default  Posted: 5:40 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

It really sucks that our kids get placed in situations we would never want or allow as a result of WS's choices.
Hooray for you the opportunity to see it all fall apart for him.


Me-39
HeeHaw(EX)
OW SmokyHo
Married 21 years
DD-19, DD-17, DS-15, DD-11
DIVORCED

Rejoice in hope, persevere in tribulation, be devoted to prayer. Romans 12:12


Posts: 82 | Registered: May 2014 | From: Pacific Northwest
MyVoice
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Default  Posted: 6:00 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm with the pass the popcorn crew

Sorry your DDs had to be there but it sounds like they are awesome little women, strong and centred enough to know how crazy that trip was.


Me:BW 46, Him:WH 50
two kids DD14 and DS17
Married 26 years
OW 28, crew member (he was the ships captain)
"People are formed by their actions, not their ideals" unknown

Posts: 470 | Registered: May 2012 | From: Australia
fraeuken
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Default  Posted: 6:23 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Well, I want to say 'stay tuned' for the sequel.

Between OC who is due August 28 and DD16 now being in open rebellion ("I am not going to live with my father and that woman anymore...") as well as well as xh's various money issues and OW refusing to go back to work until OC is at least 3 years old, I have a feeling more episodes are coming.

Next up is the long-awaited Caribbean vacation for Thanksgiving - 2 adults, DD16, DD11, sparkly panties' D6 and OC (about 3 months by then) in a 4 people condo.... I predict DDs will be mainly used for babysitting services...


Temporarily independent with the whole world at my feet.

Posts: 1255 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: California
Nature_Girl
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Default  Posted: 7:00 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Next up is the long-awaited Caribbean vacation for Thanksgiving - 2 adults, DD16, DD11, sparkly panties' D6 and OC (about 3 months by then) in a 4 people condo.... I predict DDs will be mainly used for babysitting services...

What could POSSIBLY go wrong?


Me = BS (Stay-at-home-mom)
Him = EX-d out (abusive troglodyte NPD SA)
3 tween-aged kids
Together 20 years
D-Day: Memorial Weekend 2011
2013 - I DIVORCED HIM, I'M FREE!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RBOJpIwF47Y

Posts: 9687 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: USA
LifeIsBroken
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Default  Posted: 9:06 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Except that your daughters have to deal with all the crazy (so not fair), I love stories like this. Thank you for sharing; I'll look forward to updates. Meanwhile, hugs to you and your daughters.


BW: 59
XH: 60
Married 34 yrs, LIBerated: 2/17/11
MOW: 50 (she said she wanted a sugar daddy; xh said, "I'M HIM!")
Actions ALWAYS have consequences. Too bad cheaters don't consider the consequences BEFORE they create so much damage.

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