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deeplysad
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Default  Posted: 2:03 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm very, very sorry for your loss.

(((NIK)))


Me: BW - I'm much too young to feel this damn old
Him: FWH - Midlife crisis with a pathetic porn wannabe
D-Day: August 2004; Lots of false R until February 2005.

It takes all kinds of kinds....Miranda Lambert


Posts: 3231 | Registered: Oct 2007 | From: So Calif
gahurts
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Member # 33699
Default  Posted: 2:10 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I am so very sorry for your loss.


"Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indominable will" - Mahatma Gandi

"Courage is being scared to death and saddling up anyway." - Aubrie


Posts: 3415 | Registered: Oct 2011 | From: Georgia
tired girl
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Default  Posted: 2:14 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

Beautiful poem. So sorry for the loss of your father. May you have peace in the days to come.


Me45 Him 45 Hardlessons DS 25,23,20
D Day 1/18/10 his 3/8/2012 mine
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." Eleanor Roosevelt

Posts: 4847 | Registered: Mar 2010 | From: az
ThoughtIKnewYa
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Default  Posted: 2:16 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik))) I'm so sorry for your loss.

Posts: 11658 | Registered: Mar 2008
abbycadabby
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Default  Posted: 2:17 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family)))

Posts: 1248 | Registered: Feb 2010
yearsofpain25
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Default  Posted: 2:18 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.


25 years and counting of pain caused by mother's infidelity. Aftermath: 1 deceased sibling, 1 lost family, 3 lost souls.
"Each new day I am just glad to be alive and have survived all that I did." Ashland13

Posts: 2054 | Registered: Jan 2014 | From: Northeast US
deena04
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Default  Posted: 2:21 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 944 | Registered: Dec 2013
ajsmom
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

My deepest condolences, NIK.

What a great legacy your parents have built.

(((((NIK & family)))))


AJ's MOM


Fidelity isn't a feeling...it's a choice.

"Truth has no special time of its own. Its hour is now - always." - Albert Schweitzer
____________________________________________
Me: BW - Him: 200+ # tumor removed 7/09
DS - 31 - Yikes!


Posts: 21048 | Registered: Dec 2007 | From: Been Through Hell...On My Way Back
somanyyears
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Default  Posted: 2:30 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..

((((((nik)))))))

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4122 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
confused615
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Default  Posted: 2:37 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Im so, so very sorry for your loss.

((((((((((((NIK))))))))))))


BS(me)42
FWH 45
4 kids..21,20,11,10
M: June 2001
D-Day: 8/10/10
Status: Reconciling.

..that feeling you get in your stomach, when you heart's broken. It's like all the butterflies just died.


Posts: 7389 | Registered: Jan 2011 | From: Indiana
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They'll always be with you. (((NIK)))


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17381 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
simplydevastated
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Default  Posted: 3:12 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((HUGS)))

My condolences to you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.


Me - BS, 39 (I'm not old...I'm vintage)
Two Wonderful children - DS10, DD7
Married, for now... (4+ D-Day - listed in profile.)

Posts: 5854 | Registered: Jul 2009 | From: In the darkest depths of hell!
JanaGreen
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.


We're both in our 30s. One awesome 4-year-old daughter.

Posts: 6724 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: Somewhere in the South
Alyssamd24
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Default  Posted: 3:23 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

So sorry to hear of your loss.


"I need to be redeemed to the one I've sinned against because he's all I ever knew of love"

Posts: 835 | Registered: Apr 2013 | From: Massachusetts
LoveActually
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Default  Posted: 3:28 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so so very sorry. What a beautiful poem it made me cry.


BS (Me)
WS (Him)
D-Day 5/29/09
Married 11 yrs, together 16 yrs

Posts: 772 | Registered: Jan 2011
Kajem
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Default  Posted: 3:31 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((((NIK)))))))

I'm so sorry for your loss. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.


I trust you is a better compliment than I love you, because you may not trust the person you love, but you can always love the person you trust. - Unknown
Relationships are like sharing a book, it doesn't work if you're not on the same page.

Posts: 5062 | Registered: Jul 2012 | From: Florida
Pinkyxo
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Default  Posted: 3:50 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm so sorry. May he rest in peace. He's with your Mom now and no longer suffering.

Hugs & prayers


One foot in front of the other

Posts: 30 | Registered: Apr 2014 | From: Lost & Isolated
woundedby2
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Default  Posted: 3:55 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry, NIK. You've been through so much recently. Be good to yourself.


Me: BS
2 kids: DD15 and DS18
Him: The Assclown NPD
OW: "friend" of 15 years
Divorced! Feb. 2010

Everybody, soon or late, sits down to a banquet of consequences.
~Robert Louis Stevenson


Posts: 7813 | Registered: Mar 2008 | From: SoCal
Myname
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Default  Posted: 4:03 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry.

(((())))


DD: 1-14-09 EA/PA OM #1
TT: 5-11&12-09
DD#2: 5-18-09 EA OM #2
5-31-09: Told me she hasn't loved me.
No kids
Me BH: 38
12-08-10: S

Posts: 3010 | Registered: Mar 2009 | From: Inside your computer.
jrc1963
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Default  Posted: 4:04 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I'm very sorry for your loss.


Me: BSO - 46
Him: FWSO - 69
DS - 13
D-Day - 12-11-09,
R - he finally came home
Your life is an Occasion. Rise to it. - Mr. Magorium, "Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium"

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