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ISPIFFD
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Default  Posted: 7:30 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm sorry you lost your father, but I'm glad you were able to be there with him at the end, to see him off.


Me: BW (55)
Him: WH (62)
7/14/11 - Divorced

Posts: 1874 | Registered: Nov 2009 | From: another world
sisoon
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Default  Posted: 8:22 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I'm so sorry for your loss.

Plainsong is travelling (disconnected from the web), so I'll add her condolences, too.


fBH (me) - 70 (22 in my head), fWW (plainsong) - 65+, Married 45+, together since 1965
DDay - 12/2010
Recovered, not yet fully R'ed
I share my own experience because it's the only experience I know, not because I'm a good model.

Posts: 10383 | Registered: Feb 2011 | From: Chicago area
still2suspicious
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Default  Posted: 8:43 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((nik)))

I am so sorry for your loss. Your dad sounds like a wonderful man, and father. Hold the good memories close to your heart.

Sending prayers.


Me: BS
Him: WH
DDay: LTEA

Posts: 1304 | Registered: Apr 2011 | From:
rainagain
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Default  Posted: 2:48 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK and family)))))


Now, faith is being sure of what you hope for and certain of what you cannot see. Heb 11:1
I done been through the pain and the sorrow the struggle is nothing but love. Maino
Me: Divorced BS 49
DS22, DD19, DS17

Posts: 1298 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Massachusetts
Must Survive
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Default  Posted: 4:59 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

I just saw this.

Hugs to you and your family. What a blessing to be with your dad at the end.


Me BS
WS: Just a squished bug on the window of my life!
Divorcing, STBXH is engaged/living with OW#3

They have a choice: they can live in my new world, or they can die in their old one." — Daenerys Targaryen


Posts: 785 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Must Survive
tesla
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Default  Posted: 5:26 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((((Nik and family)))))


"Thou art the son and heir of a mongrel bitch." --King Lear

Posts: 4687 | Registered: Jan 2012 | From: Indiana
persevere
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Default  Posted: 11:28 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm so sorry for your loss, but I'm so glad you were there with him. Treasure your memories. Sending you strength and love.


Me: BW-44
Him: XWH-44
Together 9 yrs
DDays: 1/10/2011
Status: Divorced 4/27/11

Above all, be the heroine, not the victim. - Nora Ephron

It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.
- J. K. Rowling


Posts: 4611 | Registered: Mar 2011 | From: Texas
yewtree
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Default  Posted: 11:41 PM, July 24th (Thursday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Dear NIK, what a beautiful tribute you posted to your Dad.
I'm sorry for your loss.


Me(BS)45(at the time of D-day)

Divorced 2009, Closing on house Nov 2011 -
No longer waiting for the other "she" to drop.


Posts: 4694 | Registered: Oct 2007
FixYou71
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Default  Posted: 12:20 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NICK))) Saying a prayer for you and your family.


BS: 43
H: 49
Dday #1 Oct 2007 (Porn for 2 yrs)
Dday #2 May 2013 (Porn for 5 more yrs))
Dday#3 May 2014 (finally admitted to drunk kissing OW in 1994: the 2nd drunken kiss with another woman during our M)
DD 21 and DS 17
Married 1993

Posts: 451 | Registered: Mar 2014
click4it
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Default  Posted: 1:08 AM, July 25th (Friday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

((((NIK))) My love is going out to you and your family right now. My deepest condolences.


Me: 42
Two boys: 17 and 14
Divorced 12-13-05
d-day 10-02-01

Laughter will cure life's ills. Have you had your laugh today?


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nowiknow23
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Default  Posted: 10:08 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

"Today we bury his body, but not his soul; his hands, but not his good work; his heart, but not his love."
With those words, we said goodbye to Dad last week.

The services and the week's events would have pleased Dad very much - family and long time friends gathered together, sharing tears, memories, and much laughter. He would have beamed with pride over his children and their families posing for portraits together, would have loved the impromptu and highly competitive soccer game that broke out between his grandkids, and would have smiled as he availed himself of the steady stream of amazing food visited upon us all by the community.

I really want to thank you all. I have been surrounded by love and support these past few weeks, and the SI family has been a big part of that. I can't begin to describe how much that means to me.


You can call me NIK

"If you carry joy in your heart, you can heal any moment."
- Carlos Santana


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Crushed1
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Default  Posted: 10:22 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK and family))) I am sorry for your loss.

"Today we bury his body, but not his soul; his hands, but not his good work; his heart, but not his love."

This is truly a profound and beautiful truth! Peace.


~~"You can't run away from yourself"!!! Me to my H when he descended into adultery insanity.
~~Prov.15:13 "By sorrow of the heart the spirit is broken"
~~"The day breaks-your mind aches"
~STRENGTH~PEACE~HOPE~FAITH

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jo2love
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Default  Posted: 11:35 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((Nik and family)))

You are always in my heart and thoughts.


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Jrazz
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Default  Posted: 11:39 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful words, NIK.

Sending lots of love.


Cherish those who seek the truth but beware of those who find it. - François-Marie Arouet

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LosferWords
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Default  Posted: 11:41 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Those are very powerful, uplifting, and positive words. I am sure he is honored.

((((NIK and family))))


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authenticnow
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Default  Posted: 11:50 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Beautiful.

(((((((NIK)))))))))


Take up your space (and do it well).

"That's the thing about pain, it demands to be felt."


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NaiveAgain
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Default  Posted: 11:57 AM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK))) I'm so sorry for your loss.


Original WS D-Day July 10, 2008. Kept lying, he is gone.
New WS (2 EA's, no PA) 12-3-13
If you don't like where you are, then change it. You are not a tree.

Posts: 15291 | Registered: Aug 2008 | From: Ohio
MovingUpward
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Default  Posted: 12:09 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))

I am disappointed that you didn't jump into that soccer game though.


AKA Moo

Think of the haters in your life as sandpaper; they’ll scratch you up time and time again but in the end you’re polished, smooth, and spotless..while they end up useless

We make a living by what we get, but we make a life by what we give.


Posts: 52680 | Registered: Jun 2007 | From: Big Blue Nation
FaithFool
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Default  Posted: 12:16 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Your family sounds pretty awesome.


DDay: June 15, 2008
Mistakenly married Mr. Superfreak
20 years of OWs, WTF?
Divorced Dec 26, 2011
"Life is a shipwreck, but we must not forget
to sing in the lifeboats". -- Voltaire

Posts: 17551 | Registered: Jul 2008 | From: Canada
Mama_of_3_Kids
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Default  Posted: 12:51 PM, August 4th (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

(((NIK)))


Me: FBW/30 Him: FWH/33 The kidlets: DS13, DS10, and DD8 The hounds: Four Shih Tzu's
Finally, completely R'd
Clothed in strength and dignity, with nothing to fear, she smiles when she thinks about the future.~Proverbs 31:25

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