Cheating Hurt by Infidelity
Betrayal Wayward Donations lying
Welcome

Forums

Guidelines

Find a Local Counselor

The Healing Library

Media

Contact Us
lies
cover
In Association with Amazon.com
Support
Infidelity -
-
like us on facebook
You are not logged in. Login here or register.
[Register]
Newest Member: KingHit4Six (44888)

General Post Reply     Print Topic    
User Topic: Types of Cheaters???
threeofus
♀ Member
Member # 9242
Default  Posted: 7:35 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Is there a word to describe a person who cheats on their mate with mulitple people at the same time? I thought it may be serial cheater, but for some reason I think I am wrong. Help me out!


D-Day: 08-10-05
Married: 18 Years
Together : 19 Years
Kids: 23 Year Old Daughter
me: BS, 44

him: WS, 42
Separated November 08
File for D January 09
D May 2010
Dated SO 3 Years
D Day 07 05 14

Boiled down to being with someone I cou


Posts: 285 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: maryland
somanyyears
♂ Member
Member # 26970
Default  Posted: 7:45 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage


..how about 'sociopath' ???

..I can think of a few more but I'll leave those to your imagination

smy


trust no other human- love only your pets
She isn't and never was who I thought..I can't believe who I married and what she did to us.
Me 67
Her 63
Married 42 yrs (together 47)
18 yr LTA with bf


Posts: 4122 | Registered: Dec 2009 | From: the sad state of affairs
totalheartbreak
♂ Member
Member # 41589
Default  Posted: 7:53 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

broken.


Me: BH (30s)
Wayflost: WW (30s)
"Ever notice those that advocate anything for 'happiness' are perennially unhappy?"

Posts: 147 | Registered: Dec 2013
deena04
♀ Member
Member # 41741
Default  Posted: 8:17 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sad, that comes to mind as it is sad how broken someone is and breaks their BS.


Me BS mid-late 30s
Him WS knocking on 40 (lovemywife4ever)
blended family with lots of kiddos
together 5 years, married 8/13
D day 12/1/13
WH ONS had been 4/12
Getting ME back and moving to HAPPY - whatever that means
I want out!

Posts: 944 | Registered: Dec 2013
HurtingandLost
♂ Member
Member # 29322
Default  Posted: 8:32 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Seriously broken individual with zero boundaries. There are additional vulgar descriptions that would be appropriate that I will leave to your imagination


36 BH
Sons 16 and 8 Daughters 11, 7, 5.
Ex and STBX both cheated, thinking of getting a dog as a companion after D. At least they're loyal.

Posts: 964 | Registered: Aug 2010 | From: MidWest
tryingmybest2011
♀ Member
Member # 32584
Default  Posted: 9:28 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Philanderer?


BS: me - 37
WH: him - 37
DD: 8
DD: 11 mos

Married over 9 years, together for 18.

DD#1: 12/12/10 - LTA of 3 years, 2 mos.
DD#2: 02/02/11 - 2 EA/PA with coworkers, a month after the LTA was ended (by OW).

In limbo.


Posts: 323 | Registered: Jun 2011 | From: Ontario Canada
SBB
♀ Member
Member # 35229
Default  Posted: 10:58 PM, July 21st (Monday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

In my case we called him "husband".

Serial cheater, philanderer, whore, FUBAR. cheataholic.


I may have reached a point where I'd piss on him if he was on fire.... eventually!!

Posts: 5548 | Registered: Apr 2012 | From: Australia
Salt
♀ Member
Member # 43726
Default  Posted: 12:34 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sociopath

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/08/23/11-signs-dating-a-sociopath_n_3780417.html


BS, 54 Divorced 2012
I read and walked for miles at night along the beach, writing bad blank verse and searching endlessly for someone wonderful who would step out of the darkness and change my life. It never crossed my mind that that person would be me.

Posts: 89 | Registered: Jun 2014
Sad in AZ
♀ Member
Member # 24239
Default  Posted: 2:42 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

That type is called a sex addict.


I solemnly swear that I am up to no good.

Posts: 20141 | Registered: Jun 2009 | From: Upstate NY
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 2:44 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Womanizer for a wh, a ww? Idk . Habitual cheater plus a whole array of the usual bad words. I'd say most definitely a sociopath.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5020 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
threeofus
♀ Member
Member # 9242
Default  Posted: 5:30 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Thanks for the responses everyone. I went to IC and was told that my ex BF is a sex addict. I found out he was cheating through his phone. There were text messages in there from around 30 women....I am not exaggerating! The messages indicated that there was actual sex, phone sex, planning to have sex, explicit pictures....etc. it all made me sick. Women from different States were in the phone. I learned from the phone that he was on at least two dating sites. My emotions are all over the place. I think I am still in shock. I shoild be crying constant, but I don't. I found this out about two weeks ago. Just feel numb most of the time.

How does a person manage that much at one time??????? Now I know why he stayed stressed so much.


D-Day: 08-10-05
Married: 18 Years
Together : 19 Years
Kids: 23 Year Old Daughter
me: BS, 44

him: WS, 42
Separated November 08
File for D January 09
D May 2010
Dated SO 3 Years
D Day 07 05 14

Boiled down to being with someone I cou


Posts: 285 | Registered: Dec 2005 | From: maryland
heme
♀ Member
Member # 40684
Default  Posted: 6:00 AM, July 22nd (Tuesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

They don't really manage it, not in the sense that they care or or do anything for the other people involved. They use and move on to the next person. There is no emotion, compassion or even thought for the other person when you are talking about someone like that.


BS: Me (30)
WS: Husband (31)
Married 8 years, together 9
D-Day: Sept 10, 2013
D-Day2: May 31, 2014
Children: 5, ages 7, 5, 3, 1 and due in September

Leaning towards leaving, no one deserves this pain.


Posts: 205 | Registered: Sep 2013
Ostrich80
Member
Member # 34827
Default  Posted: 2:59 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Wow you must be in horrible shock. That's a whole lot to digest. I may be out of line and forgive me of I overstep but this sounds more like a personality disorder. I.mean 30 different women. Does the ic think he/she can unravel this man and get to the root of his problem? I hope you can detach and focus on
yourself. If he gets help, more power to him but I would want to distance myself while he's doing it. Just take one day at a time to regain yourself individuallly. I'm so sorry this happened to you.


BS..me
WS..him
Been with him over half my life
4kid
DD1 10-01-09 DD2 02-12-12 discovered it never ended
OW..nothing special. Just your average skank
Status..#$%@????

Posts: 5020 | Registered: Feb 2012 | From: midwest
cosmicjoke
♀ Member
Member # 39159
Default  Posted: 3:41 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

Sociopath.

Posts: 173 | Registered: May 2013
william
Member
Member # 41986
Default  Posted: 6:38 AM, July 23rd (Wednesday), 2014View ProfileEdit MessagePrivate MessageHomepage

my wife


me - bh
her - lara01

from 09/11 - 05/13
2 ONS, 10 sexting partners, 1 LT EA/PA

??/06/13 DD/1 - admits to LT EA, begin false R.
01/13/14 DD/2 - LTA was PA.
01/18/14 DD/3 - sexting 5 guys.
01/19/14 DD/4 - 2 ONS with different guys


Posts: 542 | Registered: Jan 2014
Topic Posts: 15

Return to Forum: General Post Reply to this Topic
adultry
Go to :
madness  
© 2002 - 2014 SurvivingInfidelity.com. All Rights Reserved.